Is masturbation cheating?

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    #26 Boypaul, Apr 18, 2024
    Masturbating myself is never permitted. Wife is in full control.
     
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    #27 Cecilia B, Apr 19, 2024
    This is pretty much how it is with me and husband. I don't permit masturbation unless I decree for him to do it. I supervise it. Alot of times, it's in front of my friends. He has to ask permission to ejaculate. I almost never grant it. If he stops stroking, a swat to his bottom with a leather paddle gets him going again. Of course, he ejaculates so that gets him 25 strokes of the tawse plus he has to eat it.

    If I fond out he's masturbated without me decreeing it, he gets chastity and a Disciplinary Session. If I find pornography on his computer, I assume he's masturbated.

    I don't consider it cheating, but I don't like it, either. For a counterbalance, any time he wants sex, unless he's in chastity or under Discipline, all he has to do is ask. If I'm not immediately available, if he can't learn to control himself, I'll control him (which I like doing, anyhow)
     
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    #28 anasyrma, Apr 19, 2024
    Unless ordered by the KH masturbating is cheating. Some KHs do not permit their slave to even touch their penis (or vulva). An unauthorized orgasm should definitely be punished. My wife does not enforce such rules, but I limit how much I masturbate to once every month or two at most. I try to stay caged as much as I can. When I masturbate I eat what I produce as a way of "paying" for the pleasure. The taste has grown on me so it is less of a punishment that it first was.
     
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    #29 Jay Sub, Apr 19, 2024
    Lol. So all men have had gay sex if they've played with their own todger?
     
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    #30 MVincent, Apr 19, 2024
    Currently I’m not allowed to ask for any front stimulation. She actually laid out a set of rules recently. The only thing I’m allowed to ask for is back door play. We’ve been extremely busy with life at the moment but my Queen definitely keeps me chasing. I wouldn’t say she thinks of it as actually cheating but she does call it that. We recently had an apadravya piercing done on me and ordered a custom cage to accommodate it. She felt the extra security was needed. I don’t think it was needed but I do love my new bling!
     
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    #31 JaySaysYes, Apr 19, 2024
    Don't ask me, I'm just letting y'all know the rules.
     
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    #32 madams-sissysub, Apr 19, 2024
    To us it is.
     
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    #33 Muppet, Apr 20, 2024
    Yeah:
    6) Other [please state]
     
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    #34 Muppet, Apr 20, 2024
    Where can I buy an edible tawse? Is it made of liquorice?
     
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    #35 Muppet, Apr 20, 2024
    Ah, “todger”! You don’t hear that very often these days….
     
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    #36 Muppet, Apr 20, 2024
    You are urgently needed over on
    “Using the bathroom with the cage on....”
     
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    #37 Muppet, Apr 20, 2024
    IMG_4602.jpeg Todger Moore

    Should this be in the Bondage forum though?
     
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    #38 starflyer, Apr 20, 2024
    love your style
     
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    #39 lockedbyLadyKat, Apr 21, 2024
    I haven't been allowed for a long time. If i was to be unlocked and masturbate, it would most definitely be considered cheating
     
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    #40 denied_one, Apr 21, 2024
    Same :confused::D
     
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    #41 John, Apr 21, 2024
    I mean it’s indirect cheating depending on what you agreed on. I mean it’s not relationship ending cheating. I would simply just be honest and take the consequences for the bad behavior.
     
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    #42 denied_one, Apr 21, 2024
    Exactly!
     
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    #43 locked_top, Apr 21, 2024
    Good husbands don't touch themselves without permission.
     
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    #44 JoeD, Apr 22, 2024
    I'm not locked up but I'm not allowed to orgasm without her permission. Masturbation is ok as long as I don't orgasm. It actually helps her, because it is self-torture and keeps me aroused and weak for her. I honestly don't know how any of you who are not caged, could go days without touching yourself, especially if you are being denied. Seems like an impossible expectation.
     
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    #45 locked_top, Apr 26, 2024 at 11:50 AM
    How many orgasms are you allowed per year?
     
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