Just want to say hello. I am married, retired and locked in chastity most times for the last 13 years. Only time not locked was due to medical reasons like illness and surgeries. Until 15 years ago I was in a Truple with my wife and our married girlfriend. Girlfriend is sexually dominant and my wife tries to be. Women always found me attractive but cheated on me due to my 4.5" penis. I got good at oral both vaginal and anal back in the old days when most guys thought that was gay and did not do it, especially analingus. This made me popular with the ladies but not for interncourse. In my 30's I developed bad ED and by the age of 40 I no longer had intercourse as I could not get/stay erect and always fell out of vaginas. Oral was stopped since both of my ladies found it better to have oral with women. That is when I became the submissive to my two women. The girlfriend was always eager to show my wife why I was useless as a primary sex partner and often humiliated me in front of my wife. She enjoyed inflicted sexual pain which made her lubricate so much that her thighs were dripping wet. She loved CBT and ball busting while my wife was more into sex for her pleasure only which is how we are now. We are just a couple again and sex is still for my wife's pleasure only. Unlike most into chastity, my wife does not enjoy me penis and thinks ejaculation is disgusting. She does not find penises arousing or aesthetically pleasing so I am kept locked when medically possible since at my age surgeries and other medical issues occur every year. Sex is strictly for my wife's pleasure only. My wife is fine with me never having an orgasm and does not plan any. If I get one it is due to an accident like her being so into her own orgasm that she forgets to let go of my penis when teasing me. Most times she keeps me locked during sex but sometimes she enjoys teasing my penis to hear me moan in frustration. I am supposed to tell her before I orgasm but sometimes I do not and I orgasm. Maybe 2-3 times a year. If I do not warn her I get a hard ass paddling until my butt is black and blue so I do try to alert her but sometimes it feels so good I just want to orgasm and pay for it later. I am currently in a very lightweight 3D printed cage and use plastic locks after having two of those cheap cabinet locks fail in me forcing me to spend a lot of time cutting myself out of my cage. I do not trust them for long term wear. I basically consented to chastity due to my wife allowing me to have sex with all of her girlfriends and almost daily with her female lover who lived with us on and off for a few decades, even after she married. My wife says I owe her this for all the sex she allowed me with other women. I have always loved bisexual women who liked to have threesomes so that is the sex life I know since I was 16. My girlfriend at 16 who became my first fiancé married a woman after we broke up. My lover after her got into gang bangs with my three best friends and then did so in front of me and expected me to lick her clean. I kicked her out because I was in the Army and the three other guys were under my command and it became awkward with them having sex with my live in girlfriend. It was bad enough that the cum I tasted a few nights a week were from men my gf dated but to find out it was my friend's cum was too much for me. Then I met my wife who was a virgin and did not know she is bi until later in our marriage. She is OK with me and even once tried another guy to see if the problem was just me and my small penis but did not orgasm wth the other guy and knew she just prefered women. Lucky for me my wife orgasms very fast. Within a minute or two at most. Plus she can have 3-5 orgasms in a row with her vibrator or my tongue. I know this may sound like a made up story but it is actually my real life. Right now I am excited because my wife is allowing me to perform oral on her for the first time in 8 months due to me becoming her body slave. I shower her, clean up after she uses the bathroom, apply lotions to her and give her massages on request. We have not slept in the same bed for the last 40 years of marriage. Sex used to be once a month or two but now we are having it once a week or more due to our old age and knowing that our last orgasm may very well be our last. I just got frustrated with going months between sex and orgasms. So we have agreed to have sex more often but she is not interested in my orgasms and any I get will be accidents when she teases me or ruins an orgasm. I know a lot about chastity and BDSM since I have been into most of the fetishes you read about online. I had sex with males in my younger days and thousands of thresomes and one 5 some. I have been sexually abused in a lot of the ways you see in porn. I am not into vanilla sex at all. My wife will slap my face, spit in my mouth, use me as her toilet, and loves hurting my penis due to my ED and being sterile. My moans of pain make her orgasm intensely and quickly. At the core of this is the fact that my wife married me to have kids and then we learned that I am sterile. Once she learned that our sex life went into a whole different direction where she no longer wanted intercourse which hurt her due to feminine problems she had plus surgeries that made intercourse painful. She really had no use for my small penis and that was when she started to invite her girlfriends to join us in bed using me for bait since they all thought I was hot. For us, chastity solved the small non erect sterile penis problem and that has been our sex life for a long time.