Told my wife this morning

Hi all, quick update on how things are going. I’ve followed all the advice here, covered myself up, not mentioned chastity (despite every desire to do so and basically not thinking of much else!), done extra chores, looked to anticipate her needs, etc.

I think I mentioned I was able to place my hand on her breast the other day one morning while in bed which was nice. This morning we both woke up early coincidentally, about an hour before the kids, so we snuggled a bit and I asked if I could touch her boob again, which she let me. After a few minutes she moved from her side on to her back and in the past she’s let me move my hand in her pyjama pants so I wondered if that might be happening here. I moved my hand down her stomach and she didn’t stop me so I started gently rubbing her mound, especially circles around her clit.

Eventually I worked up the courage to ask to lick her pussy - and she said yes. I was able to be quite physical not just with my tongue but actually her rubbing against my face, and I used some fingers inside her also. I thought there was a fair chance that she’d ask if I wanted to be unlocked and to have sex with her but the end result was a quite juicy orgasm all over my face and still locked up - basically as had been predicted by @MaggotNub and the feeling was incredible.

I know it’s only been five days so still a long way to call mission accomplished but I just wanted to thank everyone here for their support and advice, it seems to be making a difference and having her feel comfortable.

 

It’s set for release day today after a week locked up. Last night we were watching TV and my oldest daughter came in saying how only one more sleep to Taylor Swift’s new album comes out. After she left my wife turns to me and says “only more sleep for you too…” I almost fell off the couch. Both of us are working from home today so this could be interesting. I am curious whether it will be sex or masturbation.

 

So we were both working from yesterday with kids at school, after lunch she removed my cage and I unsurprisingly got hard immediately. She took me to the bedroom, had me lick her briefly and then let me inside her and I spurted I would say in about 40 seconds. She laughed and said something along the lines of “well that wasn’t really it worth it, I liked it better the other morning”. She has since said to give the cage a good wash but be ready as I never know when she may tell me to put it back on.

 

Thanks @Howwedoin - no further action per se since unlocking, I’ve tried not to bring it up again and rush it, keen for it to be her idea. The pleasing thing is that she has twice mentioned it, once saying something like “you don’t know how long you’ll be unlocked for” and two days ago saying “don’t think I’ve forgotten about locking you up, enjoy your freedom while you can”. We were both working from home yesterday with kids at school so thought she may have locked it then but didn’t happen so maybe sometime this weekend? Despite every bone in my body wanting to talk about it I’m trying to slow play it and continue to let it be her idea. Will keep you updated

 

Still haven’t being locked back up . Thinking it might almost be time to give a gentle prod. In saying that, wife hasn’t had any sexual desire or even romantic gestures, I suggested I could organise a date night for us (three kids 12/10/7 so this is very rare) and she basically said that was a silly idea. Feeling a bit flat at the moment, guess just need to find the right time,