Does Chastity and Tease and orgasm Denial....

Any form of regular pleasure seeking changes our minds.

 

To elaborate, I suspect that chastity (re: orgasm denial) is a form of dopamine addiction. Yes, having sex doubles our baseline dopamine, but the PURSUIT of sex can have up to a 6-fold increase in our base level dopamine. This is the high we experience, I believe, that stems from being so close yet so far.

I am aware of this but still subject to it, much like how I know what alcohol does to me but I still like my daily martinis. Choose your demons and battles wisely.

 

Interesting idea.

How do you balance that idea with the fact that chastity must, because it is ever present, raise the baseline of dopamine. Shouldn't it cause the increase for all other sources of dopamine too, if your theory is true?

When I have experienced a long lock I felt I was dopamine deficient, like I was quitting smoking (which I have done several times in my life). So, to me, the lack of orgasm and direct sexual contact had the opposite effect on me.



I have never heard that the pursuit of sex can increase dopamine 6x. Do you have a source of that?

 

I will let you do your own research.

 

Source: Trust me, bro.

lol

 

Possibly:
"Where nine out of ten statistics found on the internet come from." *

* The tenth person was wearing a butt plug and couldn't get the statistic past it.

 

Influences outside of our bodies absolutely can and do affect us. That's kind of a given when you thank about it.

During our lifetime, things in our environment shape our way of doing things, our desires, our fears, our likes and dislikes, and our habits. Sometimes these things become so ingrained in us that we do or don't do them automatically and they become part of our person.

They now are not what we do, they who we are. They define us.

Childhood events, upbringing, PTSD from a calamitous event all can reshape our person without some physical alteration. We can end up saying and doing things differently as a result.

For me, chastity, even self imposed for a while, has tangibly changed me as a person. I know these changes happened, yet I cannot simply flip a switch and go back to how I was. That portion of my thinking has been changed for the better, and I simply do not want to go back there.

The fact is that, I can't. To do so would require the same effort that got me where I am now, but nowhere in me is the desire to do it. The desire is what drives the change. So if I don't want to change, I won't.

I am happy being a locked submissive, denied sexual pleasure. Life has been so much better and less stressful than it was, because of my circumstances, that I don't want to go back.

So the short answer to the OP is, judge for yourself, but in my case, it has tangibly altered who I am, I literally was reprogrammed, if you will, and is clearly not a figment of my imagination, but is who I am.

 

Can we stop with this baity title bullshit? This isnt a tabloid. Just write a title explaining the topic and then ask your questions. It's a forum.

 

I can see how it could change a person. I mean in my case I am naked at all times as long as I am on our property. Plus beeing played with teased and denied all the time can play with you head too. Then there is the fact that most of us in chastity have to sit to pee then use toilet paper to clean afterwards like a woman would. There are all different variables in this lifestyle we choose that can and will change a person in there minds to some extent. But I like it myself. I feel like it is the way it is suppose to be.

 

https://secretchastityhusband.blogs...leasure-and-devotion.html?zx=4c4d274710337a5a

 

also this

https://devotionalsex.com/1outline.html

beware with both of these.. sometimes for some people somethings work better if you don't fully understand them

like when you watch magic show... do you really want to know how it all works ?
OR
the better you know a thing the more you get out of it
OR
it might be better if your partner is fully informed and you are not and she applies her knowledge to you

 

I got a PA decades ago and found it was a lot less messy to sit to piss that day
and mostly I still do
A trick I learned back then and works whilst wearing a cage
I carry a flatted cardboard center of a toilet roll
When I want or have to stand to piss it does the job of both confining and helping direct the stream
and is disposable. Drop it in the bin if there is one or down the toilet . it will get soggy enough to flush and outside just discard it is biodegradeable
going out for a long day or couple of days... carry a few
I usually have enough pockets to dedicate one for the job... keep them in an opaque plastic bag if youwant to prevent others seeing them and or keep them dry when your out

 

I get that. If you put a title, you can ask the valid question in the post.

 

It's a mix of both for most people. Most here practice chastity willingly. So to some degree the one who is practicing chastity is changing their mind through their own behavior. But the practice of it will change things over time. If someone is actually forced into chastity (which very few are), there would still be changes.

 

I get that. My own touch is nothing compared to hers.

 

That's exactly why I started chastity too. A years long jerking off habit was getting out of control. After 8 months of chastity play, ALOT has changed for me... I never thought I would pick up a real fetish for Tease & Denial, but I did... I never worried about my cock possibly shrinking from being locked up all the time, but it has some and when I said "Eh... I don't really care, because I'm not using it anyway!" I thought to myself: "Did I really just say that?! Like, REALLY???" LOL!

Truth is, I get alot more pleasure from continuous arousal and frustration than I ever did with any orgasm, and I was getting multiple orgasms every single day because, as my signature states: "An orgasm is only momentary pleasure... Chastity is continuous pleasure!" I choose the latter and I don't have to worry about the blissful feelings going away because I've cum... Getting desperate to cum over time is a whole other matter and that's entirely subjective, so I see no point in discussing that part.