So I was talking with my KH and she said that she likes that I am horny and I’m nicer now. I was masterbateing a lot before being caged 1-2 times everyday so I tend to not be super horny or interested around her at night or some mornings. We also have a 18 month old so it makes it a bit harder. She didn’t like that I wasn't initiating sex before I was caged. Now I think she’s upset because all I want to do now is pleaser her since I can’t masterbate or have sex since I have been caged for going on 5 days. So obviously, I’ve been trying to initiate things more for the past five days and that’s not normal for us. Does anyone have any advice? I think she’s ok to keep moving forward with me being caged but I also want to reassure her I’m still very attracted to her. I was just touching myself a bit too much before. I did let her know I thought masterbating too much.
If you trying to initiate sex all the time now you are caged is annoying her firstly you need to stop or you will ruin what you are trying to achieve and second you both need to start adding some rules eg every time you pester her for sex an additional day is added to the lock up time or similar. Setting a release date will give you something to look forward to and may help stop you doing this if you know there is no release until then.
Since caged I have not mentioned sex only pleasuring her and that was 2 out of the last 5 days so far. I think she’s also confused since I want to pleasure her so much now and I feel like before I would have sub drop on just not interested since I masterbated a lot. I’m not sure if she has a set date yet might be another 3 days or till the weekend.
You've got a young baby. That is exhausting. You say you're not initiating sex but it does sound like you're trying to initiate some sort of sexual practice, including pleasuring her. Maybe she just doesn't want that? She's tired, not feeling horny. She is going to find it irritating if you keep on about it and she will develop negative feelings about chastity. Good luck.
she definitely wants some pleasure as mentioned by her. I’m trying not to bring it up too often. She loves my dick and probably wants that as she say that she wants it but it’s locked up.
I'm not sure you're listening to what people are suggesting to you. Your wife probably finds that difficult too. Best of luck to you both.
I’m sure you’ll both get used to it, just give it time… Do let her know you love her as much as ever and you find her all the more attractive and thus willing to give her all the attention whilst locked up. Also, do let her know there’s an adjustment period that you must go through and assure her you’ll be patient and willing to go through it to make everything work out to keep her happy. Just remember, she will need some “Me time” along the way, so if she wishes to be alone at some point, then you best oblige, lest you make her frustrated and unwilling to continue onward. Just keep that in mind.
I agree with @PornAddict103, spot on..giving it time, and both of you realizing there's a new you showing up now. A much more energized, focused and attentive you. It will take some trial and error, exploration and experimenting. And I agree, give her space and time to find her way (with your love and support).