The title is true. I have enjoyed selfbondage for a while now and became intrigued with chastity. I work from home and am in my cage almost every work day. The first thrill was the ache while reading or watching porn. Now, I just like the feel in general. I don't share this with anyone in person but have tried Chaster. I guess it's an easy way to try and experience some control loss. Trap locks interest me because I want to be forced to do something I don't really want to do in order to get out. I'll drop in some more thoughts later. For now, hello and look forward to the community here.
I have dabbled with self bondage over the years. Now that I am in chastity all the time, have developed an interest in predicament bondage with my Mistress. Have you explored BoundAnna? Some great stuff there! https://www.boundanna.com/html/en_scenarios.html
Hi, welcome. I myself started Chastity 8 months ago to address a jerking habit and found that self-teasing and denial was ALOT more fun than just jerking off all the time, so I kind of get where you’re coming from (no pun intended). Enjoy your stay at the Mansion. Looking forward to hearing your experiences.
Yes, it's cock bondage and can have a bigger effect in the long run than just regular bondage. I know from my own experience. wish I had tried it years ago, but as they say... "Better late than never!"
Oh, yes. I have enjoyed BoundAnna but haven't looked there in a while. I think I should go back and try a scenario. This time with my cage.
I initially enjoyed the frustration of getting aroused with the cage on but now I'm leaning on the resignation and acceptance of waiting for release. Working at home allows too much free time sometimes. Trying to use chastity to stay focused on work rather than the temptations around me.
Why not find a Mistress? Way better if there’s a connection. Even though @JaySaysYes and his shadow self @Mr_anonymous will jump in to point out it’s still ultimately your free choice, surrendering to another is a very different and deeper experience. Especially if the other party is someone volatile and unpredictable, such as a woman….
Nah it's easier and more amusing to just ignore him and others. You can't let them get to you. Ones a troll, other is difficult just to be so and other has some deep seated issues that would require years of therapy to sort. I'll leave it to them to decide who is who lol.
I don’t quite grasp this. You DO insist on people owning their free choice. There’s no “trolling”, just acknowledging your point. And I thought you were fine with me now. Oh well…