I started my chastity journey with my GF 2 weeks ago. Been wearing every other day for 8 to 10 hours a day and only while awake. Starting next week , it will be daily only while awake. I am preparing for a full weekend in june while my GF is away with some of her friends.
May I ask why only during the day? I am at my most horniest at night laying in bed. I can stay unlocked during the day with my wife nearby but at night I am alone in my own bedroom and if I am not locked I tend to edge myself until it is too late to stop. So for me, night time is the best time to be locked although I am locked 24/7. Tomorrow we have sex. Last time we did I was unlocked and my wife was so into her vibrator that she did not notice that I was jerking off and I let loose three weeks worth of cum all over her body which she thinks is disgusting. This time she will keep me locked during sex and after she has her orgasms she will unlock me as she enjoys taking me to the edge and then stopping over and over again until I am begging for release so she can tell me to lock up again. So for me, daytime is no problem. it is the night that I cannot be trusted as I tell myself I will just edge a little and stop. However, I do not stop in time most times so I just stay locked all the time. You get used to it after a few weeks. I have gone a year locked up and when I unlocked it felt weird. Good luck and go at your own pace. That is when it works best. However, if you are jerking off at night, that is not really chastity so hand off.
My gf is in bed with me at night. Not sure yet how comfortable it will be getting (trying to get a woody ) during the night. I am working up to over night but taking it slow as to get comfortable with this new life style
That's the best approach. I took baby steps when I first started as well. I would lock myself up only in the day and while I was at home... It took me a few months, but eventually I was finally able to pee without unlocking myself. It was mostly "Shy Bladder" syndrome. Then after long work shifts (Retail holiday season shifts) I got so tired upon coming home that I didn't bother to unlock myself and I just crashed out on the bed still locked up. It took some trial & error for finding the right cage that would allow me sleep at night while staying locked, but I eventually found the right cage and gradually became more comfortable and less concerned about sleeping at night with the cage still on. For alot of people, it probably wasn't a big deal, but I'm hyper-sensitive so it took time, effort and persistence, but I finally got it. I'm now past 2 months of being locked up 24/7, except for weekly cock cleaning and groin shave which only takes an hour at the most and then I'm right back in the cage. So, if someone like me can get there, then I'm sure you can too.
Baby steps are ok! My Wife/KH and I have been playing for over 15 years and we just this session we are in, beat our longest lock up time, which was previously 16 days. So every day is a new record. Today is 32. You got this, take it at Her and your own pace
Whatever you do, do not show Her this....if She is more than "halfway" into your denial, She will run with it https://happy-marriage.neocities.org/introduction
Thanks , currently wearing daily on during the awake hours. We will try to sleep thru every other night starting monday.