So many women complain of their subs disappearing, mostly online, but also in real life. Others feel like they are being topped from the bottom. Here is a real story of a female who hooked up with a guy with a Cuckhold fetish. She thought it was great because she had fidelity problems and this guy was encouraging her to be unfaithful and tell him all about it. However, the guy's whole world, as least sexually, revolved around his fetish and could not have sex any other way. This article also shows that despite the repeated fantasies we read on forums that all sound like they were copied from the same fiction story, that some women into fetishes also want non fetish sex sometimes. Anyway, it is worth a read to see what happens when two people have different ideas about the same fetish as I think is the problem with some of the Mistresses here and elsewhere. http://www.salon.com/2013/09/13/i_dated_a_cuckold/