So me and my kh have been experimenting with chastity for a few months on and off and my problem is that I can't really get into it when I'm not shaved wearing panties etc. She likes hair on me because she says its prickly and hurts her but when I'm hairy and wearing boxers I'm fustrasted and feel like a manly man and that I could break my device with my bare hands I rly enjoy chastity but my fem side I would love to be more embraced and she's really into manly guys but I have serviced her and other men but she likes to have me be her one and only MAN so I'm at a crossroads and somewhst confused hope to hear from you
While i am an adherent to the idea that your body belongs to your kh, i think explaining why you enjoy being smooth will probably help. It's her choice but communication may sway her
Do you have to be smooth all over or would you be content with only shaving some bits? Maybe you could find a compromise you'd both find enjoyable enough.
quote="sandman9355, post: 98013, member: 12732"]Do you have to be smooth all over or would you be content with only shaving some bits? Maybe you could find a compromise you'd both find enjoyable enough.[/quote] Thats what I've been tryin but being smooth all over is rly what I want but as of now I'm compromising I'd like to be able to shave evrything and I'm thinking if I'm smooth all the time maybe that'll be ok with her she just hates when its growing back so she rather me not do it at all
@chastised4her2386 If your kh requires you with body hair then you must remain frustrated. If your desire to be hairless becomes overpowering, then your only option is to seek another kh.
As a Mistress, I expect to have my sissy smooth all the time, but we all have different desires for our little boys. dickie first was waxed on a regular basis to remove back hair, when the gal who did the waxing became friends. She asked what I thought about giving him a Brazillian, after sissy had asked her if waxing would keep the hair from growing as fast. I gave her the go ahead and dickie has been waxed there for almost 5 years. When I wanted to have him start shaving his chest, she waxed him the first time. The same with his legs which is when she started to modify his eyebrows. dickie now knows that every 6-8 weeks he'll have his back waxed, a Brazillian and his eyebrows, if needed. As his back hair grows slower than his pubes, he shaves that area 2-3 times a week, until he is two weeks away from his next appointment. That leaves enough to be waxed in front, while the front to back comes home as smooth as a baby. And panties and thongs look so much better without any hair !!! Have your KH message me directly is you would like me to talk with her about ideas that could work for both of you. Good Luck on your journey. Mistress Suzan
Thanks for the replies and mistress suzan I think that might be an option for me because she likes the look just not the feel so if i could be smooth shed be fine with it
Well I am a long time lurker and a first time poster but I just did the brazilian wax a few hours ago.. I am a regular guy in ,most aspects, like most guys that have worked construction have had my share of accidents nail gun thru thumb ouch and stuff like that. But I have never never felt the pain i just had with waxing wow that was painful. But I gotta say the results are worth it. I did the shaving thing but tired of the bumps etc.. I also just had my PA re-stretched and that really wasn't that painful .
I think chastity has brought more of my feminine side into the open. While my KH has always known of my enjoyment of wearing women's clothing, much of my desires were kept hidden from her (mind you we've been married for 22 years). Only recently have I started wearing panties full time and occasionally a bra as well, as well as completely shaving my chest, back, crotch and butt, which she thoroughly likes. However, my discussion of her feminizing me more led to a similar response, in that she still wants me to be her "strong manly man" and not some "wimpy girly man". Definitely communicating your feelings more might lead to her yielding on your desires, as I surely hope it does on my end too. Sure everyone's situation is different, but there should be some degree of agreement and compromise from both parties involved, especially in regards to what each expects to get out of the situation.
You are welcome. On another note, we watched some lesbian porn (her favorite) which led to her having numerous orgasms while my only enjoyment was knowing that she loved every second of it. Some pillow talk afterwards while cuddling led me to believe that there is hope for some further feminization...