So me and my kh wrote up a contact tonight and let me tell you I am now scared but excited can't believe this is happening and she made it look all pretty but its nervewracking what's on the inside wish me luck
Hopefully you both agreed on everything in it and allowed for changes as circumstances warrant. If you do that there is no need to worry; just get excited instead.
She's allowed to change things and I'm sure if it was effecting our relationship we would change things but as for the rest I agreed upon so I guess excited is suiting
Our contract is a unwritten one. We have a very open and honest relationship, and I believe through our communication with each other all needs will be met. Right now we are playing a game similar to the marble one outlined elsewhere in the forum which dictates when I get released for an orgasm (aside from when she truly is being generous).
Were very open and honest as well the contact was more for me it makes me feel more committed to serving her better I do well when I can visually see things on paper it makes it more concrete and keeps me in line
Good luck to You both! I would so much like to see it - Any chance? I would like to see where yours an our contracts are alike or apart . You can find our contract for 2014 right here. Sincerly BlueEyes
We actually took bits and pieces from a bunch that we read together and added some of our own stuff and its seeming like it going to work quite well and as to seeing it its on paper the old fashioned way lol I wouldn't want to type it its long
Fair enough - good luck with everything. We used a PC, so that we could adjust it over a couple of days. A few issues needed some extra soulsearching... before it fodballe was signed. Lol. Cheers BlueEyes
Ok so everythings going great so far feeling good and just out of curiousity does anyone get energy when there locked up?
You bet! - I am so much more focused on EVERY TASK , - not just in pleasing her, -but also in housework, -and not to forget, my professional work. I make more money, - I am happy, she is happy. No - she is thrilled!.. To be honest that is a sideeffect that surprised me a lot. I thought I would have to struggle to keep concentration if we managed - as we now do - to live the CBT/FLR Lifestyle. Well, - back to Work, right? BlueEyes