I hope this is not too unpolite, but since quite some time I am asking myself: Does it make a difference for you if the man you lock is one of the better equipped ones or rather has a small soldier ? Does it make more fun to lock a grower than a shower, concerning that in the growers case you could let him have a cage/belt that might let some extra space but not enough for full size this came up yesterday evening as I was loudly thinking to order a shorter tube for my belt, but my lovely queen right away argued that it would take away quite some fun for her.
I've only ever locked up one guy, so it's hard to say what I like better. I know I like locking up husband for a lot of reasons.
My first cage had plenty of room for me to grow and was a lot of fun! Don't think I would enjoy going micro but I've never tried! I know where Steel gauge I consider medium so I can grow just a bit and it's fun to push against the bars!
Answering on behalf of my madam, as she is not a member, I’m a grower, and denying me an erection is as much a part of chastity as denying me an orgasm. I have to growing room in my cage and that is how my madam insist it is. She gets great pleasure from seeing me In discomfort when I try to get hard.