Our journey into chastity

First, I must say I have noticed a few fascinating things since diving into this kink. 1. SOOOOO many wives or key holders are described as vanilla up until they saw their man caged or the idea was brought to them, at which point the stories all seem to track the same- the vanilla wife suddenly breaks out of the vanilla shell and this kinky game or lifestyle is ON! My story is no different. 2. There seems to be a commonality of may of you (us) that found this mid life or later- I am 50 for example and I've noticed many of you here are certainly are not 20 or even 30 years olds- but I may be wrong- anywhooo-


So my wife and I have been married for over 25 years- we were 23 when married. I have always had a very high sex drive, having had more than my fair share of casual sex with multiple women starting probably in the 7th or 8th grade, then while living in Europe routinely frequenting whore house; chronically masturbating, watching porn, always willing to try ANYTHING at least once! You get the idea. My wife, raised in a very religious household, by a strict and over domineering police officer father and taught that sex was dirty, as is her vagina, especially when menstruating so on an so forth. Her mom raised her to always be subservient to the male- have the house cleaned, dinner on the table, token vanilla sex when the husband needed it. Total old school upbringing.



When we met and started dating and eventually having sex, I began using all my tricks and experience with her and opened her up quite a bit to the pleasure and fun of sex and have worked for many years trying to convince her that sex is not dirty, nor is her vagina- on or off her period. She relaxed quite a bit over the years, but still always avoids giving me head at all cost, and refused to allow me to give her oral sex, which is like my favorite thing of all time to do. I LOVE to eat her pussy, I love everything about it, and frankly based on my lifetime of sex prior to her, I'm certain I perform oral at a well above average level, yet every time I would head down south, she would get nervous and tense and embarrassed/felt shameful about her "dirty" vagina (for the record that is HER mindset. Her vagina is always clean as a whistle and as sweet as candy!), and many times ruined the whole night of sex after arguing over me desire to give her oral and her belief deep down inside her head, that I MUST BE GROSSED OUT and cannot REALLY want to do that.


I have spent countless hours trying to convince her I DO WANT to give her oral, more than anything, and that not only am I NOT grossed out, the taste and feel of her in my mouth drives me insane with lust for her! There have been rare occasions where given enough wine or cocktails, she would let me go down on her and when I did my best work, she would CUM so hard and so loud I would almost cum! That rare occasional glimpse into her mind told me that the thing holding her back from enjoying oral was a mental block implanted by her parents and upbringing. Under virtually no circumstances will she kiss me after going down on her, which I really hate, as I am very oral and love that sort of thing.


I am and always have been the typical alpha male, very masculine, fighting,' gun shooting, law enforcement and military type of guy. That role is a lot of work, and truth be told, I love the idea of being subbed- treated like a bitch, even lovingly abused, and LOVE the idea of being fucked(pegged) like a bitch. My sex drive is still through the roof, especially given I have been on testosterone therapy for a few years now.


As far as our relationship goes, it again appears remarkably similar to much of what I have read. I take her for granted, and the only time I really pay attention to her is when I want sex, which she frequently wasn't in too, so I would masturbate; a lot. It got to the point where I was masturbating AT LEAST once a day, sometimes 3 or more; and I was watching a lot of porn. Don't get me wrong, I wanted to have sex with my wife first, and always asked or tried, but when she declined, I would turn on the computer and lay in bed and masturbate while she lay next to me.


So as mentioned earlier- I watch a lot of porn and stuff and a while back while flipping through Tumblr' I stumbled across some chastity Tumblrs. After seeing the cages and reading the stories and rules and contracts and what not, I became VERY interested. I started showing her some of the stories and probing her interest a bit. She kind of liked the stories and "instructions" on FLR and she got pretty interested as well. I suggested maybe she should buy me a cage. Some time went by and I kept bring up the topic of chastity and finally one day she told me she ordered a cage from amazon!


What arrived was a plastic CB6000. I immediately when to put it on only to find that it was tiny- diameter wise. My flaccid cock is 5" in diameter, there was no chance it was going in that thing. I took over and bought a couple Chinese steel cages that appeared to be more capable for the job. Once they arrived, I showed them to her and her eyes lit up.

The next morning she left for work. I got myself into the cage- it was a struggle because I was so horny at the thought of all this that my cock was rock hard, and as you all know, no one is getting a hard cock into a tiny cage. After some serious mind control, and ice packs, I got it to shrink enough to get it stuffed into the cage and locked it. Once I left the house, I drove all the way to the next town over where she works and called her and told her to meet me in the parking lot. Once I arrived and met her she wanted know why? I handed her the key and after checking for witnesses, pulled down my pants and showed her my cock all caged up.

The look on her face was priceless and according to her, her panties were instantly soaked.


What followed that day was constant naughty text messages from her that kept me painfully erect, horny and more attentive to her than I have been in a long long time.


This is where it got crazy, as it seems to for many. This whole chastity/keyholder thing flipped some switch in her head that I've been looking for from the beginning. Almost instantly at the sight of my caged cock and the handing over of the key to her changed her into a totally different woman. For the first time EVER her self confidence and self esteem (which she has always had little of) sky rocketed and holeee shit. What followed since then has been some roller coaster ride. EVERYTHING about being a dominant keyholder is coming to her way too naturally. She seems to know this role so well it's scary! Everything from tease and denial, to ruining my orgasms and then helping herself to fucking my hard yet dead and orgasmless cock, to her FINALLY ordering me to the bedroom when she walked in from work one day and demanding I eat her pussy where for the first time I could tell she didn't think for a second about anything other than how good it felt and that she was somehow now free to enjoy my oral gift to her- though she still won't kiss me after- Lol.


For many years in the past I have mentioned or suggested she "peg" me with a strap on I had bought long ago, but she was always grossed out at the thought. She objected to me being on my back with my legs open like a girl because she preferred that role and for me to be the alpha on top fucking her. Well that changed too. Not even a week into this I found myself on my hands and knees on our bed with her wearing a rather large strap on cock, which she proceeded to ease into me initially, and then bury it in my ass, pounding away like she had been doing it for years, calling me a bitch and slapping my ass! All while I was caged and pre cum pouring out of my straining cock. Once she was done exerting her dominance, I was "made" to give her several orgasms, until she decided she was done, and headed to the shower, leaving me there with my cock pouring pre-cum and straining against the cage.


Sorry for the very LONG journal entry. I must say I am fascinated by how this is all playing out, and even more fascinated that so many others have discovered this form of play.


Ciao for now!