What to do with unused cages

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    Like many here, I have owned several cages...6 I think, maybe it was 7. Really, once I went to MM for the Jailbird, plastic was behind me for good (let's face it, they are gross).

    It sounds like many here keep all their old cages like they are planning a chastity museum one day or something.

    I have taken mine and placed them in very public places out in the world (like on top of a newspaper box in a very busy area). I certainly do not need an old cage I will not wear and selling them seems...it is not for me. However, I wonder what the reactions are to those who notice this cock cage sitting out in the open. Does it increase awareness? Have any wives gotten their hubby in one after seeing it? Probably neither...but it seems a better use than keeping for whatever reason.
     
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    Interesting. I'd be more likely to toss in recycle or trash bins. Ever taken time to sit some where and watch for people's reactions? See if they notice it? Or more? That would be only reason i'd leave one out it public.
     
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    Have you thought about giving them to those who are less fortunate then you?

    :)

    In all seriousness, can you post the for sale and just charge them the cost of shipping?

    Iso.
     
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    I've sold a few here, for more than just shipping. There's definitely an aftermarket for used cages!
     
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    Cost of shipping would be a good way to find a style and size that works for you or find parts that you need. I have a ring that works for me but the pins on the cage are spaced differently
     
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    Not really into reaching out to other men about my sex instruments. Trash/recycling seems...anticlimactic...and keeping seems...like hoarding (but I am a minimalist).

    I never stayed to see reactions or whatnot...I presume most do not notice and it is a rare moment when someone looks...and figures out what they are looking at. Still, putting them out in public is the best use I have found for them.
     
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    You know those bridges, fences and gates that get covered with locks. Those are called Love Locks. Seems like a good final resting place for an old cage.
     
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    I like the way you think JCNTX
     
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    Responsible opposing viewpoint here.

    You're leaving a personal sex toy out in public for people to see. That's already bordering on non-con. It's not much different than leaving out a used dildo.

    And it's in public for anyone to see. I certainly wouldn't want my grandchildren to pick one up on an outing then bring it to me, asking what this weird thing was.

    Then there's the issue of disposal. Some poor SOB janitor or park maintenance worker will have to toss that out if he runs across it.

    I seriously doubt that a woman seeing a cage on top of a mailbox or something, would recognize it and then decide to use it on her husband. More than likely she would think that whoever would leave a used sex toy out in a "very public place" is disgusting or inconsiderate, and would not want her husband to be associated with that kind of weirdness.
     
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    Weld them into a sculpture and donate it to the local public library. If you have the creative incline, make it into a fountain.
     
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    Correct answer. It's uncouth at best, likely illegal, and the only thing that will come of it is being disposed of as biohazardous waste.
     
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    My 2 cents....find some extremely tiny/exotic birds you would like to keep as pets and reuse them! Don't ask me where to find the tiny newspapers for the bottom of the cage,though!
     
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    Donate them to goodwill
     
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    The idea made me chuckle, but I agree with Tom Allen. Made me think, if you had a playroom or don't have kids around you could display them in a shadow box, hung neatly in chronological order. Especially if you live with your keyholder, it could be a very visual reminder of who owns the cock. You could even pull one out and use it for a special date night or anniversary.
     
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    Fully agree with Tom Allen.

    My .02 - In a polite society, each person needs to be aware of the others who may not share such beliefs or views. Taken to the extreme, we’d all most likely agree putting such a device in a Childs environment is akin to abusing social norms and beyond normal boundaries. Placing old devices in public where children could come across it is dangerous and disrespectful. Might I suggest if doing so is exciting to the depositor, maybe they should put in in a bar restroom, table or corner. That way only adults will have access to it.
     
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    Assuming that their are no kids in the house,
    ...or other people you would rather not explain yourself to,
    ...Then Sterilize them and put them in the bottom of a fish tank.
     
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    You got my vote as the best idea!
     
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    I see where you're going with this, but instead of trying to mitigate the circumstances, or find some middle ground, let's consider: he said "let's face it, they are gross".

    Would you think it's appropriate to put a used butt plug on a bar table? Somebody - a patron or a worker - will have to handle that into a trash bin.

    So often I see the "consensual" part waved away when it infringes on someone's fetish. Nobody, children or not, should be forced to handle your old sex toys.
     
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    Fully agree - guess my concept was to drive the 'leaving' into a safer location. But you are correct, it does infringe by way of pushing ones kink onto someone unsuspecting and most possibly unwanted. Akin to leaving used needles out after a fix.

    Therefore, I vote again for:

    as the best idea yet!
     
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    I'm always so conscious of exposing non consenting members of the public to my kink, like they should all, automatically, be OK with that. It's my biggest reason to shun 'public' exposure. I think it's very inconsiderate.
     
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    I love this idea!! I have a nice fish tank too. Unfortunately I also have a young daughter that visits too. I don't want to explain that to a ten year old!!
    Love the idea though!!
     
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    I agree.
     
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    I used to think about this but in an era where it is finE for people to blow vap in my face, swear like a sailor around kids, wear racist t-shirts and smoke weed as they walk down the high street I start to think that me advertising some fun, without getting my dick out is the least of the worlds worries.
     
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    I've often thought there's an opportunity to "do good" with our ex-cages. I remember @L-u-c-y pondering raising money for charity through our lifestyle interests at one point. It raises the idea of a charitable service if someone wanted to take it on. It could even be an extension of the "For Sale" section here where people want to sell old devices and donate the money to a site-nominated charity instead of receiving the money themselves.

    Just thinking aloud...
     
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    They could also be offered or gifted as a starter device to any of your key holder’s friends who might be interested in exploring the benefits of a chastity lifestyle.
     
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