I’m going to add a slightly different perspective. I stay locked as a sign of my devotion to my wife and my commitment to my word. I am much more...
Dude, think really hard on exactly what you want, write it down and make sure you have your desires written down exactly like you want them, then...
I like the poem you shared. As someone who has spent 31 years in a 12 step program(not because I am/was an addict, but because I was raised by...
As weird as it sounds, I kinda like the panty liner solution. It feeds some submissive thing I’ve got, just like the “peeing like a girl” thing...
Throwing my two cents in, I have been locked in a flat cage(no inversion) for five weeks. Today is day 36 and am experiencing no significant...
I kinda gotta echo what the previous two guys said and what I myself posted earlier in this thread. Talk, talk, talk, and be sure about what you...
“the most not way”- should be only way
I find myself agreeing with Breathe. Communication is the key. You have to verbally express yourself and allow her the same courtesy or it won’t...
Just out of curiosity, have tried to open a dialogue with her? The hardest part of any of this, especially for men, is talking. I am not in the...
Thank You, Mistress. I understand completely and whatever You choose to share will be greatly received by all, I am sure.
Just now found Your thread. I myself am fairly new to the CM and have found it to be a very supportive community. I have always solicited advice...
To all involved, absolutely great thread. The main issue everyone has touched on here, whether intentionally or not, is communication. No matter...
Thanks for the share, M. It is nice to see someone else who has an overall positive experience with a flat cage. I am sorry the catheter/ urethral...
Remember, if you smile people will wonder what you’re up to!
Throwing a monkey wrench in here. Been locked in my flat cage for 32 days now and counting with a 15 minute release every week for cleaning of...
Not a cross dresser either, but damn! At four weeks and change, doesn’t take much for me to get horny. These are the things sent to test us....
From my perspective, the only reason for a man to wear a lock on his clothing is just to advertise his status, especially when not on the company...
Keep me posted. I hope it works out for you. I have been doing well with mine so I know it’s possible to wear one long term(at least, as long as I...
To be honest, I really don’t remember, so if I did it must not have been all that uncomfortable. It could well be that you are just unfamiliar...
Hey there! So, I also am in a flat cage with a 2 to 2 1/2 inch tube that is 8mm in diameter. I have done sounding so that diameter is not...