May I ask what she wanted that was too me as and strict?
I would call it a reward. Who doesn't look forward to having erections? If it wasn't a treat, why do we look forward to it when the cage is...
30 seconds to 3 minutes is a 6 times increase. With practice (i.e. a lot of edging) you can probably get up to 10 to 20 minutes. Despite what...
I haven't heard of a cage causing any physical issue with getting an erection once removed. However, I know that worrying about one's ability to...
I can't speak to the PA, but a solid tube, fit as you describe, is the best fit for me and for the same reason as you state. I would add that...
I used her definition of a punishment. She knows I like pleasing her, and if I do a great job competing any task she asks of me, my reward is...
Use tends to be intermittent. So all in 24/7 for decent stretches, then freedom for a week or a month, then back in again... I think I got too...
I've been tempted to call it enough a few times. But she was reluctant and uncertain when we were first trying it out. I assured her I was...
Forced? No. My idea? No. If I had said no, the consequences would be that I wouldn't be in chastity. She would feel weird for bringing it up...
I can see the advantage of a partner that shares the same sexual interests. That's the key. It isn't about where she or you wanted the cage....
If I may just address this before answering your question... I lurked on this forum for probably around 9 months before joining because of that...
Definitely learning here; thank you. It's a shame because there such an important need to learn about this. There are serious pitfalls to avoid...
Thank you!
As someone relatively new here, I can't say Yay like it's clear to me. Can you share any tips on how to tell the difference?
How does that cage not pull away?
I am new to this and did not initiate chastity. I had a lot of questions and this site is a great way of finding answers. However, I can't say...
People naturally gravitate toward doing things they like and avoiding things they don't like. If you desire something from her she isn't doing,...
All people are different, and I think in that difference I can reinforce many of your experiences. No, not everything you say resonates with me....
I highly suggest trying a strap for overnight.
Both are whenever she wants. Cage use is also whenever she wants. This is new to us, only been doing it about a year, and it was at her request,...