No need to apologise at all :+1: With regard to your cage size, my personal preference is to go smaller as it offers more restrictions to...
It certainly is and generally a very friendly place. It's the best resource for the chaste lifestyle (and beyond) that there is. Welcome to the...
You absolutely do belong here. Why would you think otherwise? Welcome to the Mansion. :lock::lockkey:
Keep scrolling down and there's a whole section of this site devoted to online chastity and self locking. It's called 'Online chastity and self...
Been there. My Mistress lost both keys once. She kept both on the same keyring! I tactfully pointed out one was meant to be kept in a safe place -...
I agree with bondinchas. Get as much skin through as possible. They need somewhere to go too. I think this is the most common problem in getting a...
With regard to your edema. I think it's problem we all go through at some point when we sleep in cages. I'd advise trying a variety of cages to...
I agree that it's a case of finding what works for you. I think your skin toughens over time. I rarely get skin problems. My go to is an Arnica...
Welcome to the Mansion.
Start slowly. You won't go to a month's lockup from a standing start. Try a variety of cages. Get a cheap set with multiple rings and experience...
It's the one part of a BDSM lifestyle that I can live 24/7. Like being in constant bondage and under constant control, with a modicum of...
Sorry. They were dreadful photos. These might make more sense..
6875468753 There you go..
I use the strap from a compact camera case. It has two swivel clips on either end that I attach to the pins on my steel cobra cage. It has a...
I went through many types before settling on this one. Finally I'm happy with a steel cage, integral lock and I too don't like round rings. I'm...
Hi Haley and welcome here. I think the most important thing is to be happy with yourself. You look great dressed and look content. I recognise the...
Hi there from Somerset. Welcome to the Mansion.
I'd say that's about right. I struggled into a too small ring once. I spotted it when my balls started swelling. I was out of that sharpish.
At the age of 65 I just can't decide whether to finally get the full chastity belt I've always craved, or admit its too late and stay locked in my...
Maybe your cage is just too small. Beyond that I really don't have any ideas. Sorry