BDSM? Chastity Device? Denial? Femdom? For me, from most to least important is: BDSM, Femdom, Chastity device, Denial (B,F,C,D) What is your...
MYTH: your keyholder must rely on your promise and your willpower to stay in your chastity device because all devices can be defeated. TRUTH:...
Definitions vary, these are mine and may or may not be helpful to you: Defined in D/s context: Top: the one who is doing the thing to another....
Here’s a list of Tech, that is either used by my wife or that I’ve read about being used in other D/s relationships. If you have knowledge of...
if your wife starts self-locking in a chastity belt?
Do you have a punishment dynamic as part of your relationship? We think there is a benefit that tends to get overlooked. It allows both of you...
Does your wife believe that her sex life is improved by your chastity regimen or does she believe that she has sacrificed her sex life in some...
So you and your partner are interested in chastity and Femdom but one or both of you struggle with the image of the Femdom and submissive, how do...
On initial review: Ridiculous! On further investigation: The 1918 Flu pandemic was so devastating among WWI nations that some historians have...
On initial review: Ridiculous! On further investigation: Condoms do not cover a sufficient are of the genitals to prevent HPV (Human...
What subtle (or not so subtle) signals or phrases will your Domme use in public or in front of friends to let you know you’re out of line?
My scattered thoughts on my explorations: On BDSM – I knew I was Kinky before I knew what sexuality was. Really. My introduction to BDSM was...
“…I don’t know what I was thinking, hiring a cleaner to clean up the apartment after we move. You’re going to clean it, I’m going to supervise!...
Labels are shorthand to quickly describe a person, a thing, etc. They are useful to classify and group. They save time but they lack nuance and...
I’ve written this to avoid hijacking multiple conversations. What follows are my opinions that are very much grounded in my experience. Hopefully...
Your Female Dominant (known by the Title of her choosing), determines that she will keep you locked in chastity at all times that she is not using...
I’ve always found it interesting how different my wife’s approach to Femdom is from many others. She doesn’t want a “willing service sub eager to...
This chastity device is everything I hoped it would be!
I have had my Steelwerks Extreme custom chastity device for less than a week, but I think it may be perfect device (for me at least). There are...