Be Careful What You Wish For Guide by Sarah Jameson

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    @LadyBlaze the book comes with a money back guarantee. .. so if it is no good you get your money back? If only chastity devices came with the same. Only 1 manufacturer did that. . Funny that.

    As I said it's an interesting book but probably too vanilla for most people on here.
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    I think it isn't that good. Too extensive, too little 'information'. And too expensive absolutely there's so much free information available. Personally I find this article one of the best -->http://www.tpe.com/~altarboy/nt080109.htm
    I have the book but really a waste of money.. my wife would want to get information in 1 or 2 pages, not 200.
     
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    Adding to that, I also have a pdf version of "Beautiful Enslavement" by another Mistress Sara (not Jameson). This one is very good, informative and not too vanilla.
     
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    I followed Sarah's blog in the beginning. Her husband is a sales consultant or something like that. She said when hired by a company to help sales, his first suggestion was to double the price of the product. I think she got her 'nerve' from him over time. Annoying hard sell is a good term. Learning how to market is one thing, barraging someone is another.
     
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    Hey everyone,

    My wife and I are slowly progressing with our FLR and always looking for quailty resources. We heard good things about this book but it seems like Sarah is no longer doing business. Her website doesn't work anymore and I can't find this book for sale anywhere online.

    As people on here have purchased it, I was wondering if someone might be willing to sell or gift their copy to me if they don't want it anymore?

    Unless of course it's digital print (I assumed it was printed) and you might be willing to send me a copy?

    Many thanks!
    Paul
     
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    I have copies of be careful and a couple of others I have found that my then partner and subsequent ones have all enjoyed them fo ral the positive reasons given above. I would highly reccommend them.

    And in conjuction I would always include https://www.reuniting.info/node/4865 its called THe Science Behind Male Chasity. If over understanding something might put you off don't read this it does explain the science behind it very well. Why it works sort of thing.
     
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    She
    She came on here and started talking about locking her boy friend in permanet chastity from his first lock up.
    She lifted most of her book off the pages in Chastity Mansion they rest she got from members here.
    The women was a fake and a very unpleasant person.

    There was no boy friend there was no chastity being practiced.
    All she done was make a swift buck on the back of the good members here.
     
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    The problem with all of those types of books is that they are written to attract males and provide masturbation fodder or feed their fetish. Few are written with females as the target audience although some claim to. I think you will see reviews and post from guys saying that the book it great but their wives will not read it. I bought my wife 3 such books because they outlined my fantasies. Unfortunately they wove FLR, D/s, Feminization and cuckolding into the chastity fetish which scared off my wife immediately. A true book on chastity would be brief. It would say, "Just say no when he says yes. Have him promise to not masturbate with or without being locked in a chastity devise. Tease and edge him every so often during sex and decide how long to deny him orgasms based n how well he takes it. " No more to say.

    I know that chastity only worked for us when we got rid of all the male fantasy stuff. A click of a lock does not magically change your wife into a dominatrix or make you a slave. Even most of the chastity and Tumblr websites are geared towards men and some even written by men posing as woman. A relationship is hard enough without making it harder.
     
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    You are absolutely right @Vinny which is why I started writing books, so that the females could get a true perspective.
     
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    I find myself looking for the "Be Careful" book as well. I searched all over google trying to find a valid copy to purchase or download and there seem to be none. The "free PDF" sites that come up are all bogus. So If anyone is willing to supply a copy or a valid link I would be most grateful. Just trying doing some reading up (got her other books off amazon) on the lifestyle to see if this is where I want the wife and I to go on our journey. Thank you for any help you can provide.
     
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    Bringing this post alive again. I can't find her book anywhere. There are some amazing info on the link you sent. I sort of disagree with "Every so often I and many of the women I have talked with want the real thing. To make these rare opportunities for him to have intercourse with you work for both of you, you need to recognize that after being locked up for a long time he will cum with a hair trigger. He is also unlikely to get as large as he did before long term chastity unless you take him out of the tube and get him hard on a frequent basis. " I don't believe I have seen evidence of this as well as that may frighten my new kh off!
     
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    Hey,

    I got a copy of this book but I'm only allowed to send it to dominant Ladys.

    cu
     
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    Most books are written as erotic literature and targeting male audience. Like flashlight is developed only for partner use.

    For getting information about chastity, tease and denial and all the other stuff it's mostly need for woman to get into forum, chats and get in touch with couples or dominant male or female to get informations.

    So why to buy a book that could used to ease the fantasy of the chaste part?

    I always say get on the internet. Google read and you well see fast the fantasy and the reality.

    After reading the stuff and watching videos seek real people and get over for some coffee. There you will find answers
     
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    If I or anyone else posted the whole book on this site as a blog or long post ..whatever's best... what would be the outcome.

    for example would it be;
    allowed
    taken down
    illegal in terms of the actual laws (of which country, and now that china seems to have cancelled copyright rules do they still actually apply anymore)
     
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    I will do nearly anything to get a copy for her. I can give her email out she athorized it
     
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    Take Google and search for warez pdf ave and title of book you well find copys
     
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    I just looked on Amazon and found it available for Kindle for $3.89.
     
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    What country? I couldn't find it in Canada us or uk
     
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    I'm in France, but I found it on amazon.com, the US version. In any case, I purchased it, risking almost four dollars, to see what the fuss was about. The Kindle version in question is very short and very shallow. I wouldn't recommend it. Four dollars down the drain!
     
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    I picked it up yesterday on Amazon (US) for my kindle. If you have unlimited, you can get it to read free.
     
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    Sorry, my mistake. What I purchased was her book, "Male Chastity and Marriage: The Complete Guide to Male Chastity and Orgasm Denial." "Be Careful What You Wish For" I couldn't find on Amazon. Sorry.
     
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