I need some advice with using a cage with a urethal insert. What is the best way to adapt, I can go for a couple of hours with it in and then it gets too uncomfortable. Any advice greatly appreciated
At the opening of my pee hole. Have seen spots of blood, then I let it rest for a couple of days and try again
@Opey Great care is needed whilst inserting the urethral tubes. I use a lotion called Liquid Silk with jemima. you should also make sure that no sharp edges exist at the tube end. your urethra is extremely tender and will easily bleed if you are too rough in inserting the tube.
You may want to get some surgical lube. I've used SurgiLube and it has worked great. I think technically one's supposed to get the individual, single use packets, but I've used those as well as the tube and never had any problems. But go slow, be careful and don't try to force it in if it isn't going. For me, it took some practice and I had a very patient and expert teacher to lean on. Good luck!
Urethral insert is one thing I have always wanted to try However I am worried about the possibility of infection, hence do not dare!
there There are a number of different devices using urethral inserts. They vary is size diameter and also length of the insert. Each can have its problems, each can have its benefits. My subs use one of two different devices, both have inserts, one is basically the insert that is the device. My own opinion is that any device which ever you choose will sooner or later cause urinary tract infection. Whilst this can be dealt with easily by antibiotics it can come on very quickly and be quite painful and take up to a week to get over completely. I would also suggest that once you have had the first urinary tract infection that others will follow at infrequent periods of time. I can write and explain more on this if you really want to get into actual specifics. Hope my response helps you.
You may also want to get some sounds that takes you to the size of the insert and have a few sessions before you try your device. As with all things like this very clean toys and hands and lube should minimise any health risk . Several people on here have used insert devices for years with absolutely no problems. . As I have been told having enemas and the use of cocks and toys up my bottom will result in certain bowel perforation . Oh really ........... Xx Wendy
Well that was an interesting exchange of views Back to the question at hand.... and others I posted here http://www.chastitymansion.com/forums/index.php?threads/urethra-insert-devices.11962/#post-98190 It seems to me - and only my opinion of course - that the meatus is being irritated by pressing against the device - and we don;t know just which one it is. It could be poor hygiene or poor metal in the device. As I have said at some length before - I only ever use water as lubricant after a good wash of the device and around the cockhead, after peeing to lubricate the urethra, with antibacterial hand-wash, it then goes straight into a bowl of water to maintain integrity if there is any delay between wash and insert, and then slides in.
I'm going to ignore - all the rants and exchanges above - I don't think they are helpful to the question and run the risk of turning this thread into another spat. Everyone is entitled to an opinion. And good points are raised on all sides. UTI's do come back if you get them previously - This is true. I have a device with an insert, so I can speak with experience (although not using it now!). I have also had sounds used on me as well - and they are a totally different thing and a lot more severe then any device with an insert. @maid_carrie makes some good points and comments - but it depends on how long the insert is in for... I don't believe long term use of inserts cause harm, A pa ring is in your cock permanently - it does not cause infections as the urine keeps it clean. I had no issues with the insert - the problem at the top of the head is more probably caused by the cage moving too much as someone grows and shrinks and then rubs the top of the penis. A smaller cage would fix this problem. When I used mine I bought some anti bacterial spray - would spray it all before inserting, and if @Mistress B - can keep jemima in a cage with an insert safely than I am guessing all is well - and she is a Mistress speaking with experience..... If you want to find out about these devices search the mansion for looker devices, and read the reviews. One of Mistress Deborah's previous subs by post was kept in a looker with an insert for over a a month (might have been two) , with no release what so ever. He had no infections and no problems. Horses for courses. Take your pick. Lucy x
I agree @philfred . I had a cheap chinease device with an insert also. I searched high and low online for advice for long term wear but only ran into tons of people warning about infections. I did stumble across some people who had worn them for two weeks or so with no problems as I did also wear mine for two weeks and no infections. I would imagine if your urinating normally a few times per day then no worries. The real concern comes in when you are inserting something deeper into your urethra or into the bladder that is not sterilized.
One of the problems is that different devices have different diameter inserts, some fill or expand the urethra and others leave room around the insert. The problem comes in where urine doesn't drain completely from the urethra and where the insert pushes into the side of the urethra making drainage slow or causing problems. One device that I have had subs use actually expands the urethra and doesn't facilitate urine travelling down the outside of the inside, but then these wearers have had problems with needing to lubricate the insert to some extent on a regular basis to avoid pain and discomfort. As @philfred said, horses for courses. I know of one cheap chinese import with an insert where the actual insert screws into the end of the device, only problem is that the screw or threaded part is too long and pokes into the device causing problems cutting or grazing the end of the penis around the urethra. I am neither for or against insert devices, it is after all, all about the fact that the wearer is comfortable and feels they can keep the device on without discomfort or problems. UTI's can be a recurring problem with some wearers and some find the odd UTI bearable and not worth worrying about, others would disagree. Some complain of needing lubrication to avoid discomfort, others don't. Obviously this varies from device to device. I suppose the long and the short of it is the same with any device, there is good and bad points with all devices and these vary greatly depending upon the wearer.
Perhaps I should point out that jemima is not permanently with the urethral insert. I wouldn't leave it inside her for weeks on end. Her wellbeing is my prime concern.
I have the same device as jemima i believe...and the insert is a temporary one... i would be concerned leaving it in more than a day or so as the steel is not, i suspect, surgical quality, and therefore prone to causing local irritation... Whilst accepting that it is a very "controlling" device with an insert..i am happier with occasional rather than permanent use of the insert... i do, however get very excited every time it is inserted..... cj