Hi everybody! I am a young woman who is in search of new adventures in her life. Currently in a relationship with a wonderful man which I am pleased to call my slave, we have been together more than 3 years now and counting Since I was a teeneger I felt different from the others, like if I was a weird girl hiding my likes, desires and thoughts from everyone and trusting anyone else than myself. Due to that insecurity I failed in my previous relationships until I met my actual boyfriend, a boy as weird as I thought I was and was such an eye-opening for me. With him in my life I discovered actually who I am and Wow! it is really liberating to say your thoughts aloud without beeing accused or pointed out and instead just get comprehension and love. We both love to do new things as in our jobs and hobbies as in our sexual life so for instance, we are always looking for a new trip or going to a different bar every time to know new and interesting people. Thus, in the search of new things, we found a caption about chastity on Tumblr, we were at bed in that moment and look at each other like "What the hell is that" and laugh :') but then we got in that Tumblr page and oh my god, we went from laughig to be in silence and just masturbate and end up having sex all night. The next morning we just say it "We've got to do this" and here I am Since then I got a lot of information about it, FLR has been the best thing for me, it match perfectly with my thoughts and likes as it is for him. Things evolved quickly and we both have adapted FLR and chastity as our lifestyle, we live it everyday and are happier than ever. Sorry if there was some things missing but I didn't wanted to do it too large.
Welcome, I am happy you found someone to be yourself around, and that this interest has sparked a new chapter. We await hearing more about you both, there are many here to listen. Welcome and good luck
Welcome, @xMariax ! It sounds like you two really have it going! I'm sure that you will find a lot of interesting posts here and we hope that you will tell us more about your journey, too!
@xMariax Hi and welcome to the Mansion. I hope you have a good time here. It is great that you have been able to discover who you are and be yourself with your boyfriend. How long ago did you and you boyfriend start chastity? My wife and I started a few weeks ago, so we are very new to this.
Congratulations! Now is the time for you to shine, be who you are and get what you want--you are in charge.
Thank you all for your warm welcome, I am pretty excited to be here. Hi Pbare, we started almost 2 years ago. That's cute, you both are about to go throught a journey that you'd wanted to know loooong time ago and which you won't want to go away
Your introduction was warm and enchanting, a lovely couple, many adventures that I hope you will share with us. Welcome aboard, take a seat, be cozy and enjoy!
Isn't it wonderful when you can embrace each other's mutual 'weirdness' and find happiness you didn't think possible? Welcome to the Mansion; I hope you enjoy the community here.
Your in the Right Place. If you think your weird than your really just normal, that is normal for the people that make the mansion their home. Curiosity is a great way to start your chastity adventure. I was curious almost 8 years ago and now it's become the norm I don't think I'm weird. I'm just happy
Thank you Breathe. Yes, I am as happy as I would never thought I could . Oh, and by the way, if that is you in the profile picture let me tell you, You've got an amazing body . Now, I am into so many things right now that 3 years ago I didn't know about them. For instance, I love CBT, kind of feet play but in my way, chastity of course, oh and sooooo much into tease and denial, we have been improving the time he gets a release and now it's quite longer than the first time, hope he do enjoy it as much as I do because it's gonna be harder for him this year jeje
'In your way' is the best way, right? It's so fun to play with the right one... T&D is My favorite! And I'd wager that's the biggest reason why I ended up bringing us here. Just getting started with chastity, but I can already say I'll never look back... It's great you're enjoying the life! Yes, that's Me. Thanks... and right back at you. Glad you found us here.
Welcome and enjoy. You want it, he wants it, so go for it! But with you to lead, it's to you to make the running! You to decide what you want and you to get it! He shouldn't be 'topping from the bottom'. Have you considered getting a good device to secure him?
Yes it is, and MUST keep that way . Oh yes, I know what are you saying, at the begining he was just like "You should do this" or "You should do that" "Come and tease me, I want to..." and started to demanding me to do what he wanted but that end up quickly since I tell him (Nicely jeje) that I was not her bitch, He was MINE! I have, but where we live now is quite complicate to get one . But soon that might change since we want to travel abroad and who knoks, a nice cockcage would be a good souvenir, isn't?
You might be able to order by mail though if you get steel (which I recommend) you'll need exact measurements. But you could order a cb6000 (plastic) just for starters as it has a range of rings and spacers you can try out till you get the right size to fit him. Then you can upgrade to e.g. MatureMetal and something which can be worn 24/7 if you want. Else, which countries will you visit on your travels?
I think I could get one on the internet but I just don't know what pages sell them and shipping it here It's quite disappointed. We used to go to countries which border is next to our country and then we plan to move on in that way until we finish meeting all of them in the continent, then start with another continent and so on, but sadly economy has screwed over our schedule so we have to wait until we can go to our next travel. Sounds great! I love to have him begging for release or a chance to cum, he just sounds so desperate in that moments . Of course I punish him with some CBT and icyhot which is one of my favorites ways to do it. Oh, and extend his chastity time a little bit
Welcome! Insecurities, truths, liberation, light bulb moments, willingness, FLR, TND, CM, fitting right in, relationship building ... Life is full of opportunities. We may not be able to control the wind, but we can adjust our sails.
Yes I do see the issue. Profile (not always accurate but usually!) shows you in Colombia. There are sometimes offers of devices on the sale/exchange section here, though for first time you might prefer to go to manufacturer. Both cb6000 and MatureMetal are in USA. Cb6000 (AL Enterprises) are Las Vegas, Nevada, and site here; http://cb-x.com/CB-6000-Package--Clear_p_20.html MatureMetal are in Weatherford, Texas, and here, and are also active CM members so you can also PM them on CM! https://www.maturemetal.com/ Note they also do an optional double (or even triple!) base ring if you're ready for this They also do sizing rings. If you know or can easily ascertain what size is needed you may feel you are ready for something steel direct! IcyHot or similar (BenGay, Ralgex etc especially for those s) is ideal for CBT and if you're really feeling mean some Tabasco on the tip is something else too.
Yes, and it isn't the only issue, if I'd buy it abroad I have to pay it in dollar and the foreing exchange make it a lot more expensive, not to mention the shipping which is not included in the price . So until some generous subbie donate me one , I have to wait until we travel some place where we can find it. Tabasco, I have to try it, thank you! What I do when he piss me off sometimes is get a handfull of IcyHot and spread it out her cock and balls and then make him write 500 times his mistake and another 500 times what he should have done to not make get mad