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    Audiobooks for keyholder?

    Male Chastity: a guide for keyholders By Lucy Fairbourne You can find it in the Apple Books store both as reading or audio book. I listened to it some time ago during one of my 3+ hr drives. It is not porn, it is about the psychology of chastity and keyholding in the perspective of a dominant...
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    Forgetting that you wear a cage

    Thanks, I will try that too. It seems like it is a common problem, but fixable.
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    Forgetting that you wear a cage

    Kink3d resin, but sometimes Mature Metal Jailbird does it too
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    Forgetting that you wear a cage

    After 2-3 days I weare the cage, it starts to “burn” under my scrotum. Perhaps too much friction or stretching the skin? I do put some vaseline, it helps but it does not solve the problem. Does anybody have a recommendation?
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    I have *I think* an interesting question..

    Married since 11 years, first marriage for me but second for my wife. We have two kids. Chastity is on and off since a couple of years.
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    Hello everyone

    Hi, welcome to the group! I am an Italian submissive too, living in California, intermittently caged by my wife when my libido goes through the roof but hers doesn’t. We talked about cuckolding too but she is not interested at this time. It seems like we have common interests! How long have you...
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    If she wanted you to suck...

    I am bi and I already sucked cock during my college time. I would love it if my wife/KH instructed me to do so, in particular sucking together. Unfortunately we are not in a hotwife/cuckold relationship.
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    My first JB: comfortable but I may need an update

    Thanks to Mistress Mature Metal and Williams, they have been great in providing feedback and support in shortening the cage. Now the cage has been shortened from 3” length to 2.5”, see the picture...
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    Cage painful under pants

    What straps do you guys use?
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    Cage painful under pants

    I hope somebody can give me some advice. I am wearing intermittently a Mature Metal Jail Bird cage, 2.5 inches long. It seems my correct size, perhaps I can shorten it a little more. However, while it’s not a problem under very loose pants, like sweatpants, it is under regular pants like jeans...
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    Spotted in real life ?

    WOW! This is a fantastic outing.
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    My first JB: comfortable but I may need an update

    I received today my first Jail Bird cage from Mature Metal. William and Mistress MM have been very useful with their discussions. The cage is well built, solid. I think I spotted the right base ring size and gap. I probably ordered a cage that is slightly too long though, not sure if too wide...
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    Do you enjoy a ruined orgasm?

    I love them! However, I had proper ruined orgasms from my wife KH only once. She would suck my cock and I would warn her when I was about to cum. She would them stop and let me drip few drops. She would then start again commenting how tastier my cock was with cum drops. Those comments would...
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    How do you start a chastity lockup? Relieved or Horny?

    I am usually horny. We are still at the beginning of our chastity and orgasm denial journey. My wife generally orders me to put the cage on when we are already in bed and we have a disconnect in sexual desire: I am super horny and she is not in the mood for sex or adult play. Typically she is...
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    Question on sizing

    Hi everyone, I am about to order my first MM jail bird. Given the commitment in terms of effort and money to get a custom cage, I want to be sure I get it sized correctly. I currently own and occasionally wear a Kink3D cobra cage size S with 1 7/8 in diameter base ring. I think the cage is...