Recent content by gentleman

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    Circumcision as an adult

    Lately I have been thinking at circumcision. I have a ton of foreskin and that’s sometimes an inconvenience when wearing the cage: if I don’t retract it it gets pinched, if I retracted it may be subject to edema. It seems to me that many chaste men are circumcised. Did you get circumcised as an...
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    Single locking cock ring

    I currently own a MM Jail Bird. The main problem I still have occurs after a few days of constant wearing, I have a burning sensation under my scrotum, probably due to friction/stretching of the scrotum from the base ring caused by erections. I had the thought that perhaps the MM single locking...
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    Where is everyone from? / Where are you?

    San Francisco Bay Area, California.
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    New to CM but not to chastity; always looking to learn more and connect!

    Hi @chaste_guy I am a 46 yo married guy in the San Francisco Bay Area, CA (same time zone as yours). I do chastity intermittently with my wife/KH. We play chastity when my horniness is through the roof and she is not in the mood for sex. She knows about my strong cuckolding fantasies, we talked...
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    Friend keyholder

    I think you guys are on the good track to start a relationship, even if not sexual/romantic, at least KH/sub. She seems to enjoy the game.
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    My first JB: comfortable but I may need an update

    After another round of interaction with Mistress MM, I got my JP cage shortened to 2” (from 2.5”) length and replaced the base ring with a step larger one (1 7/8” from 1 3/4”), still oval. It is definitely more comfortable, it also seems to fit better. There is no more gap between the tip of my...
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    Beach chastity,

    Oh I remember the Englisher Garten, I miss Munich. I lived there for 3 years. I remember the first time I saw a hippy-looking family all naked. I thought it was funny. There are lots of nudists along the Isar river too. I am planning a trip to Munich this Summer, I have’t been there in so many...
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    Audiobooks for keyholder?

    Male Chastity: a guide for keyholders By Lucy Fairbourne You can find it in the Apple Books store both as reading or audio book. I listened to it some time ago during one of my 3+ hr drives. It is not porn, it is about the psychology of chastity and keyholding in the perspective of a dominant...
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    Forgetting that you wear a cage

    Thanks, I will try that too. It seems like it is a common problem, but fixable.
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    Forgetting that you wear a cage

    Kink3d resin, but sometimes Mature Metal Jailbird does it too
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    Forgetting that you wear a cage

    After 2-3 days I weare the cage, it starts to “burn” under my scrotum. Perhaps too much friction or stretching the skin? I do put some vaseline, it helps but it does not solve the problem. Does anybody have a recommendation?
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    I have *I think* an interesting question..

    Married since 11 years, first marriage for me but second for my wife. We have two kids. Chastity is on and off since a couple of years.
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    Hello everyone

    Hi, welcome to the group! I am an Italian submissive too, living in California, intermittently caged by my wife when my libido goes through the roof but hers doesn’t. We talked about cuckolding too but she is not interested at this time. It seems like we have common interests! How long have you...
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    If she wanted you to suck...

    I am bi and I already sucked cock during my college time. I would love it if my wife/KH instructed me to do so, in particular sucking together. Unfortunately we are not in a hotwife/cuckold relationship.
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    My first JB: comfortable but I may need an update

    Thanks to Mistress Mature Metal and Williams, they have been great in providing feedback and support in shortening the cage. Now the cage has been shortened from 3” length to 2.5”, see the picture...