Recent content by SandK

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    New MM Jail Bird - Black spots or nicks in surface

    I might reach out to MM, but I'm not a fan of the extended shipping process for something like this. My primary concern remains whether these imperfections are purely cosmetic, or if they are something that might long-term compromise the device? For example, will they start to rust or require...
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    New MM Jail Bird - Black spots or nicks in surface

    I recently purchased a new Jail Bird from Mature Metal. It arrived with several small black nicks or spots and some minor surface roughness. They are like small, black, shallow holes in the otherwise shiny stainless steel. I know nothing about working with stainless steel, but my online...
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    Any long distance chaste relationships?

    That keypod sounds like a good setup. Sorry I don't have more advice for long distance, but I'm glad to hear it's working out!
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    Any long distance chaste relationships?

    I don't have experience with long distance and chastity, but I could certainly see it working assuming it's a trusting relationship and the two of you can communicate about it well. Just 3 weeks of full chastity feels a little quick to jump into the "hardcore" mode you describe. My experience...
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    Premature Ejaculation Training

    Training to cum faster never really occurred to me. I'm almost always trying to hold back and last longer. I don't think chastity has had a significant effect on my longevity one way or the other, but it has helped make it less of an issue. Keeping my penis locked, we can more easily avoid...
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    New Years Resolutions for 2023

    Yes, there is a drop we'd both prefer to avoid, though I think there is a combination of reasons for reducing my orgasms and having my penis stimulation reduced. To clarify, many of my anal orgasms end up being full orgasms. We like to keep my penis locked, I really like anal and can cum that...
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    New Years Resolutions for 2023

    Butt stuff, mostly. She can make me cum fucking me with a dildo or her hand, and she's expressed interest in trying more prostate milking to milk out my cum without the big orgasm spurts. In my attempts in the past, I rarely could manage that slow dribble type of prostate milking, but I can...
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    New Years Resolutions for 2023

    I'm a tad late with posting our resolutions, but better late than never. We made a little contract out of our resolutions. In the resolutions below, I'm K and my wife is S. We mostly set a clear expectation that I'll be locked nearly all the time, but my wife also wanted to resolve that she...
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    How do you combine chastity and sports?

    I don't think I'd try any contact sports like football or basketball out of fear something might snag wrong down there, though I've never tested with a cup. I do regular exercises like rowing and hiking and those typically go fine. I don't go on full day hikes or anything too long. It's...
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    Hello. Husband and Wife Committing to More Consistent Chastity.

    I do some of the same, making suggestions or encouraging new activities. My wife says she likes my suggestions, so it seems to work for us. If you're locked 24/7 with the approval of your wife, then I'm guessing it works for you, too!
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    Hello. Husband and Wife Committing to More Consistent Chastity.

    Hello, I (K, male) am locked by my wife (S, female). We are 10-years married and have enjoyed chastity off and on for most of our time together. I was first locked around 2010, but it would be several years before we found our way to a place and a device for long term chastity. My wife and I...