Recent content by Slavecaro

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    Creating verbal tease and denial reminder

    Happy to help but you may want to make him write the script, since this seems like something that he suggested/wants and it will help you. If he at least gives you an outline of what he would find interesting/erotic then you could fill in the blanks if you are creative enough. If not, I am...
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    Numbing cream game changer

    Put the cream on inside of a condom and secure the condom. You will have no feeling for hours.
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    7 weeks. No pussy.

    7 weeks? There are people in here going on 27 years.
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    Neosteel she-male for trade

    Why did you sell it? I have this belt with a different back. Thanks
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    What is the most humiliating thing your wife has ever made you do?

    You actually got called a fag in this day and age? What part of the world do you live in? I literally have not heard someone called fag in over 20 years and I have lived in 4 countries and multiple states in that timframe.
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    Ideas to incorporated lack of sex drive into loving BDSM relationship

    @Shimone, Thanks for the reply. As I stated in the initial post. I am not looking for a cure. That is for her GP and her Gynecologist to figure out. For the time being it is what it is and I am not going to look for the medical solution. I also do not need to "communicate more or better"...
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    Ideas to incorporated lack of sex drive into loving BDSM relationship

    A couple of specific ideasfor #2 Humping a fleshlight in different places under a pillow on the couch (perfect height) on the bed Humping the arm of a chair or sofa while caged. This one doesnt really work in a neosteel In the cage and using a very strong massger/vibrator Allowed to cum in...
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    Ideas to incorporated lack of sex drive into loving BDSM relationship

    Interesting. How often does this happen for you? Daily? I can see with a some good communication and agreement beforehand some people might be able to channel that frustration/anger into play.
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    Discovering my Humiliation Kink

    We absolutely love discrete public play and I agree that it should not expose the public to sex without their permission. So a few things I have tried In Vanilla Public. E.g. restaurant, shopping etc Diapers, plugs, remote controlled vibrators, shock. They make a few chastity devices that...
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    Ideas to incorporated lack of sex drive into loving BDSM relationship

    Thanks folks. I appreciate the comments. I am not looking for help in my relationship. We have kinky play quite often. I am just looking for more interesting ideas. My partner is doing all of this for me and I am trying to help as much as possible by coming up with creative ideas that put...
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    Menopause, Loss of Sex Drive and BDSM

    I think this thread has lost the plot. The point was to discuss different ideas for intimate BDSM play.
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    Ideas to incorporated lack of sex drive into loving BDSM relationship

    I assume this question is for Starflyer since he mentioned his wife but it looked like it was for me.
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    Ideas to incorporated lack of sex drive into loving BDSM relationship

    I restarted this topic because the previous thread devolved into a discussion on gender, cures for menopause, relationship advice etc and was not discussing the original intent/question. The topic is about ideas to incorporate lack of a sex drive into a loving BDSM relationship. What are your...
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    Menopause, Loss of Sex Drive and BDSM

    Ok. A few more ideas Humiliation Task Day. You can have an orgasm if you do all your tasks to my specification Dressed for Humiliation (Sissy, DIapers, Etc) with plugs inserted maybe bondage that allows the tasks Inspections after each task and punishment if not up to standard Allowed to...
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    Humiliating release methods

    There are so many variations and scenes you can dream up here. I agree with several who said it depends on what you find humiliating. Some of these will be redundant and some of my ideas are versions of what has already been mentioned. 1. Set an alarm for every 30 min. When it goes off...