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    #1 kinkykierstencd, Dec 23, 2015
    Hi everyone new member here looking to meet and correspond with others. Also new to this lifestyle and looking for info on chastity devices for first time users...
     
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    #3 Mistress B, Dec 23, 2015
    Hello and welcome to the Mansion @kinkykierstencd
    you will find a wealth of information regarding chastity devices in The Mall section of the Forum.
     
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    #4 Mascara^Snake, Dec 23, 2015
    Hello Kinky and welcome, oh and happy christmas. x
     
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    #5 Colleen1986, Dec 23, 2015
    Welcome! I hope you find the site as helpful and inviting as I have. Merry X-mas and a Happy New Year! Hugs.
     
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    #6 kinkykierstencd, Dec 24, 2015
    Hey everyone and I'd like to thank each of you for taking time to reply! Nice to know that I am welcome here. My wife and I are new to this scene and we are interested in her becoming my key holder! We recently discovered the joys of cross dressing and looking expand! Again thank each of you for your replies and hope you all have a very Merry Christmas!
     
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    #7 Jblocked, Dec 24, 2015
    Welcome new hear my self find it hard to navigate help if I can. Love hearing from loving Key Holders
     
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    #8 kinkykierstencd, Dec 24, 2015
    Hi jblocked and thank you! I'll be in chastity soon I hope as my wife and I are looking for my first device!
     
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    #9 Chat408, Dec 26, 2015
    I highly recommend you spend the money and get a mature metal custom cage. We have the queens keep and he is able to wear it 24/7 if I want.
     
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    #10 Jasmic68, Dec 26, 2015
    Hi @kinkykierstencd nice to meet you. I did it the other way round, found out about chastity, proved to my wife that I was serious before she agreed to be my KH, now she is beginning to relax into the role and in the last week discovered cross dressing! What a way to finish 2015 :D

    If you have anything like the fun I've had you are in for one heck of a ride.

    As far as first device goes I recommend you measure your penis several times a day to get an average flaccid length. Measure from the tip of your glans to where it meets your scrotum. Use this to work out whether a device will fit you. You want to be snug, any room for swelling will be uncomfortable. As far as getting a custom device I would wait until you know for sure this is for you and have an idea of sizing. I personally use the Holy Trainer but it isn't for everyone. Most of all I recommend you just have fun. This is quite a mind game but if it isn't fun you are doing it wrong.

    Happy Boxing Day. :)
     
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    #11 Jblocked, Dec 27, 2015
    IT has been a great trip brought me and the wife closer and I thought we were close before. Has been amazing hope you and your KH get the same
     
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    #12 Miss Lesley, Dec 29, 2015
    Welcome - enjoy all the aspects of your chastity - suspect the crossdressing will be very important (from one who knows( xx
     
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    #13 Jblocked, Dec 29, 2015
    I started with CB6000 and moved up to Jailbird from Matrue Metals
     
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    #14 Felix cum ea, Dec 29, 2015
    Welcome
    I presently wear a Holy Trainer and after some other devices this one proves already 228 days that 24/7 is possible in it, my wife also likes the look of it.
     
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    #15 TimidGuy, Jan 2, 2016
    @Jasmic68. Thanks for your suggestion about measuring the penis. I am finding the "flaccid" part is possibly the most difficult aspect of the measurement. One of the entries in the Galary on this site included something that looked like a road sign. The difference between an erect, full (but not erect) and flaccid penis is shown in symbols. This measurement might not be as easy as it sounds. About the time I think I am ready to measure, arousal takes place, taking me at least to the second stage. Interesting!
     
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    #16 Jasmic68, Jan 2, 2016
    Haha, every time I try to even think about measuring myself or also when it is time to put my device back on after cleaning and shaving I start to swell. It is even worse if my wife tries to do it! I am sure you will get there eventually. All I know is that you shouldn't be generous with your measurements, the cage should fit but not be too long.
     
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    #17 kinkykierstencd, Jan 2, 2016
    I want to thank each of you for your input we appreciate it very much!! We have decided on the holy trainer v2 but trying to figure out if I need the small.... When fully erect I am a shade over 5 inches and average girth and when flaccid not even 2" so we're not sure if we should go with the regular size or the small. We are assuming the small would be snug even when flaccid and possibly be more uncomfortable when erect (kinda the point right) and we do not want it to be too painful but are afraid the regular size would be to large when not erect...
     
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    #18 Jasmic68, Jan 2, 2016
    Get the small. You are just a tiny bit smaller than me, I should have got the small.
     
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    #19 xcitedsisssy, Jan 2, 2016
    I would go with the small also. I think you will find it to be more comfortable. I'm a shade over 6" when erect and am in a cb-6000s.
     
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    #20 jemima, Jan 2, 2016
    yes its a lot better having a teeny cage cos then it don't hurt when you gets a bit excited,
     
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    #21 TimidGuy, Jan 2, 2016
    @Jasmic68. That is good to know. Now that this has come up, have you found a good way to deal with those situations where something comes up in the media or from another source, while you are caged, that arouses you? Do you try to divert your thinking to something distasteful or a tragedy? Or, do you just grin and bear it?
     
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    #22 Jasmic68, Jan 2, 2016
    If possible I go and have a pee which does an incredible job of getting rid of an erection. Most of the time I just put up with the swelling. Mostly the other source that induces the swelling is my Wife, so then I definitely just put up with it! :D
     
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    #23 kinkykierstencd, Jan 2, 2016
    Thank you so much jasmic, sissy and jemima! Was hoping to hear that lol I do enjoy hearing that I'm on the small side! Does wonders for a sissy!
     
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    #24 Jasmic68, Jan 3, 2016
    Wearing a chastity device has cured me of any hang ups I had previously about having a small penis. Interestingly it has also stopped my Wife from feeling the need to counter any claim I have about my size with the assurance that my size is good enough for her. She now understands that I do believe her on that claim, but I am also just being accurate. I wouldn't say I get turned on by being told I am small, I just accept it.

    Would you wear a device if you had an 8 or 9" penis? I'm not sure I would. Not because it wouldn't fit, but because maybe my attitude towards my penis and using it would probably be different.
     
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    #25 kinkykierstencd, Jan 3, 2016
    I'm not sure why I enjoy being teased about my size I just know it arouses me when my wife does it lol. She only made the claim one time that she wished I were bigger but that's all it took for me to find out that her saying that turned me on. Other than that she has never complained about our sex but we are both finding out how much more pleasurable adding the cross dressing and chastity and cuckolding has intensified things! As far as being 8or9 inches no I probably wouldn't want to experience chastity or being a cuck either one which is why I'm glad I'm not that big.... I'll be sure and update you when we order and receive my device thank you!
     
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