My wife gave my key to her friend.

At least it was only a day....and hope that she is in a good mood when your release day arrives.
 
Well, after our 12 days, I decided I wasn't having real fun with it. She just didn't contact me or anything. It's not her fault, I just realized I needed more interaction with my keyholder, so we called it off.

I guess it was ok while it lasted, but I wouldn't do it with no contact again, I don't think.
 
tease and denial vs ignore and denial.... a lot dif. Giving so much of our innate needs without the affirming need to be teased sux!
 
gotta be a two way street.

When Mistress K has me locked I can deal with it. If she wants to play tease and denial I am on top of the world. She gets it that denial is at the heart of chastity for me. And she also knows that there is a lot of teasing that is her responsibility. My responsibility is to make her cum so much that she denies me. When she runs out of energy to keep the teasing going she generally unlocks me for awhile.

Then it ramps up again.

Being ignored is a deal breaker.
 
Yeah. Like I said, I don't blame her. I just don't like it. I can handle a while with no communication; life happens. You're right, being ignored is a deal breaker.
 
So there is no key within easy reach in case of an emergency? I have been into a lot of fetishes and it took a surgery to convince me to play safe and sane. It is your penis so do what you want with it of course but I am telling you that it is not a good idea. Mostly done in fantasy play than real life. I have used my emergency key several times to stop pain.