It's come to my attention the strap on harness I bought for her gives her very little stimulation. She says she knows there are harnesses out there that provide stimulation for her as she uses it. Can anyone provide insight?
My wife can get off when she uses a feeldoe. It's a harness free dildo with part of it being inserted in her and three ridges for the clitoris. My only complaint is that it is a little too stiff but that is a matter of personal preference. They also make realistic looking versions called the realdoe which are softer. (I have yet to purchase one).
Thanks for the great ideas! The ambrosia is a pretty cool toy and I like all of the engineering that went into it, but it looks like a lot of gear for her to deal with. The realdoe has my interest. Now I'm trying to decide weather to order the regular or the slim. Anyone else have experience with realdoe?
@NewJewlery you just need a harness that has an internal stimulation as well. I bought a harness that has a optional internal dildo way to big for me but Mistress loves it. Good luck Lucy x
We really like the Share XL from Fun Factory. Like all the 'strapless' double enders you really do still need a harness. There is a very good article by Ruby Ryder on the subject which makes a good case for the 'double' with harness:- https://www.tantusinc.com/blogs/sexed/33853700-the-truth-about-strapless-strap-ons-ruby-ryder