Why Peg?

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    If I may ask the Mistresses and Doms out there, what is it that you get out of pegging your chaste boy?

    My wife is a natural dominant - loves being in control and telling me what to do. She keeps me in chastity and denied release most of the time. However when it comes to pegging, she simply does not do that to me, and I want it, and she knows I want it. She told me once that she does not like the idea of having a cock.

    I figured if I could ask you all what you get out of it, and I share these responses with her, she may hear something that will motivate her to give it to me. Like really give it to me.

    Thanks for any thoughts you may have on the subject.

    Respectfully,

    -js
     
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    Don't push her into doing it , seriously. Wrong mindset !
     
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    I can tell you why my wife and girlfriend liked to peg me. They did not want a cock. It was a combination of giving me pleasure and an act of dominance. Back in my day, taking it in the butt was a sign of submission to the person doing it. Since our girlfriend sexually dominated me, she did it. Sometimes my wife and our girlfriend would take turns pegging me while I performed oral on the other. The idea was to get me to moan in pain to turn on the one receiving oral. Nothing to do with wanting a penis or acting like a man. It was domination plain and simple. While we all see guys taking huge strap-ons, just a word of caution. I got an anal fissure which is a tear in the lower colon near my anus. I had to get surgery to repair it so you need to start off small until you are stretched to take a larger one. That was my first and last sexual mistake which made me realize that there is a difference between porn and reality.
     
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    Js,
    I'm not sure you can or should convince any woman to do something she does not want to do in this lifestyle. If you do you always run the risk of ruining the whole Chastity relationship. Most of the woman are not up to our speed, we (men) have beeen looking and fantasizing about this stuff for years before we introduced our wife's or girlfriends to it. Give her time (her time not your time) and see where it goes, baby steps nice and slow. Let her become who she is and not what you want her to be. I know that's not the answer you are looking for but it's really true, believe me been there done that and it does not work!!
    If you guys are really in love and she is your best friend you will both get what you want in the end, and I really believe that. And if you don't get pegged and it not something she wants in the end so be it, concentrate on the things you both injoy and have fun.

    I,m getting old and the saying is true Life's Short-Have Fun
     
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    giggle. i don't think Ladies do want to have a cock. but my Mistress does do me sometimes and She got one that go inside Her as well as me and its nice for Her when She does me then.
     
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    I totally agree with all of the above posts. Thanks everyone for your thoughtful responses. If you told me a couple years ago that my wife would be controlling my orgasms by enforced chastity, I would have said you are crazy. But here we are now doing that in a whole new adventure that is bringing us closer together, helping me living out most of my fantasies, and is giving her the control and authority she is craving more and more. If my pegging desire is never fulfilled, that is ok. She is enabling so many other of my fantasies of submission to become fulfilled. I feel so lucky and so thankful to her for her open mind and loving female authority. This post was just an attempt to give her good first hand information about pegging so she can make informed decisions about it ;).
     
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    It's also quite good fun taking charge and giving your boy a good seeing to.
    . Xx Wendy
     
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    Have you tried butt plugs.I know it's not the same but they can help satisfy those cravings of being penetrated
     
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    I get plugged immediately for attitude and sometimes simply because she is feeling generous. I totally love her for that !
     
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    She pegged me! It was for my monthly release treat. I did not even get any post orgasm blues or feel any less submissive after the orgasm. Maybe that was because she locked me back up rimmediately after we were done. And the orgasm was awesome. it was like 2 waves where the first one is taking you for a ride then the second one overtakes the first. I am still so horny but know that my next release won't be until May. In the meantime, my devotion for my wife/mistress/goddess has never been stronger. She rules.
     
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    Congrats! Welcome to the club :) I still remember my first time. The one and only time I came from being pegged. It was an overwhelmingly emotional experience that I will never for get and always hope to recapture!
     
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    My mistress does orgasm when doing this she likes the control and to see me humiliated. I first have to suck on her strapon and beg her to penetrate me when she thinks I have sucked and begged enough she will ride my arse until she is satisfied. The pleasure I get from this is just fantastic and is one of my favourite ways to submit to her control. I am usually used like this weekly. I am always kept caged for this and leak like mad
     
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    I prefer to be caged when pegged or milked. Only been pegged a couple of times as she is still easing into that and not totally comfortable with the strap on idea. However, she loves me using the strap on on her. She does try once in a while to use a hand held basic prostate massage device, which she is a little more comfortable with. I want to be made to cum by being pegged because it gives me a more complete feeling of submission to my Bride and KH, giving her more control. However, this also takes a bit more time, energy and effort on her part. She finds it much easier lately to have me remove my cage and to give me a fairly quick hand job, as she has not been feeling very well over the last several weeks, nor has she had much time. For those held in long term long ups with denial, being pegged once every week or two is good for your body's needs and maintenance. Also heard her mention for the first time today what it might feel like when other guy(s) start checking her out, as she has lost more than 10 pounds in the last several weeks. Sooooo, I know her wheels are awake and turning. lol....
     
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    I wear a butt plug most days and a night, Miss thinks it is an important attitude adjustment. Miss usually peggs me once or twice a week for the same reason, I of course like it, usually Miss is fully dressed at the time which helps to reinforce status. Sometimes our pegging is romantic and Miss will dress very Sexy and tease me. Miss puts an condom over the chastity so that my gurl juice is saved for later consumption, this used to be yucky, but now I am used to it and like it, Miss loves it!!
     
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    Yes have to agree, pegging is a great way to reinforce status especially when mistress is clothed and I am either naked or made to wear something feminine such as stockings, and always caged. Mistress will sometimes have me wear a butt plug when doing household chores, She says it will help me focus on my tasks and remind me who is in control, she has also had me wear one when we have gone out, and takes great delight in the fact that I am as she puts it Her caged and plugged panty wearing little bitch. All this just gets me leaking in my cage, and burning with desire to submit to her even further
     
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