I have gotten countless cages and they all are either too big or they feel good but I still get erections. I have been on and off for about 4 years. My erections get to about 4 inches and about two inches flaccid. I’m afraid I’m too small to stay in chastity. And when I get erections I can grab the cage and move up and down and get orgasms. What can I do. Any suggestions I’d appreciate it. The pic also has a bar for my balls to rest. I have another one that’s smaller.
Try not stimulating yourself when you get that erection. Think of your chastity devices as a reminder not an enforcement device. You can add spikes to that cage so it will become painful to have erections too
I have the spikes but I can’t close the cage with it attached I think my ring might be too small for it
that looks highly uncomfortable, is it? Totally agree in the first few months all I did was try and get myself off whilst locked quite successfully I might add. It tool me a while to realize that the cage is not their to make it impossible, rather it is there to make it harder and serve as a reminder... Remember orgasms are waaaayy waaayyy better if you are patient and surrender them to your KH. That is what I think anyway, Self control is the best type of chastity and truly proves to your KH that she is more special to you than a weak orgasm that is self supplied . Sometimes I wonder if I really need the cage anymore to be good but I might be jumping the gun and I shudder to think how that suggestion would go down right now.
I think we're all different when it comes to how are bodies react to the cages we wear. There is no device other than a full belt that will prevent you from having some type orgasm. I'm about 2 inches when flaccid as well but my cage length is like a 1 3/4 inch. I can get somewhat hard in it but not a full erection. You're cage looks like it fits well, I think it's just one of those things you have to put up with unless you get a full belt. Like @keyheld said, the chastity device also serves as a mental reminder versus just a physical deterrent. I know I can pull out of my device while flaccid if I really wanted to but I don't because I think through how it defeats the purpose of what I'm trying accomplish as well as a commitment I made to my Miss. it's good to have an overall goal of what you want and at least for me it helps keep me focused and not try to defy my device.