It can be difficult for my Goddess - because I'm her boss. I started in the adult entrainment industry because of chastity, and produce chastity material based on a real 24/7 couple, amongst other things - but when it became enough to sustain us both, she quit her job and works with me full time.
I am an absolute submissive to her, I've been in chastity for years with releases once a month, and then put back in. However on the business end of things I am far more knowledgeable - and therefore I need to tell her what to do, organize her day, and basically be a boss.
It leads to a strange dynamic between us, because obviously she has total control of me, yet on a professional level I control her. It's caused some static in the past, thankfully not much - but I know for both of us, switching between these roles dozens of times a day can be very difficult, especially when deadlines are due, updates to our site *need* to go out every friday, rain, shine, hurricane, or otherwise - so the stress level can get pretty high. During these times I come out of sub-mode and become a total alpha-male. which can be a pesky thing when we live in a 24/7 female led relationship.
Basically we've learned to read each other pretty well...when I'm in "business mode" she knows not to try and control me...because well I'm taking care of our livelihood and to be in business you need to be confident and outgoing.
Without being able to kneel at her feet and ask "how may I please you Goddess" at the end of every single day - I honestly don't even know how I'd deal with the stress...my submissive lifestyle is like a mental vacation. When she tells me to do even the simplest of tasks, I feel free. When she goes to see other men, I feel absolute freedom and joy - and truly believe that I'm an inferior male, a cuck, a slave, with a worthless member - and she deserves those other men.
Yet, when I'm in that alpha-male mode...man it can be difficult, and she has expressed that she actually likes seeing me go into that mode though - seeing me become the man, like the men she goes to see outside of our relationship for her pleasures. She wants to rip my clothes off and my chastity - and ravage me. Yet she holds back because she loves to no end the dynamic we have, and me being submissive.
It's a fine line we walk, on a daily basis - as most of us do. As life intrudes on fantasy...I only hope that more people are as fortunate as I. I read a lot about wives being weirded out by chastity, or unwilling to be dominant, which is absolutely fine...it's the choice of each individual - but my heart does indeed bleed for those men who are submissive who cannot be, and it must remain only fantasy!
It touches the core of the whole 24/7 debate: Is it possible..
