Hello everyone, as I've mentioned in a thread or two, I'm getting on a plane tomorrow, july 18th 20, and headed to the other side of the USA and into a brand new D/s FLR with a woman I've never met but have been talking to for three months. I am to be her TPE slave/gimp/maid/butler/handmaiden. This is intended to be for life if it works out initially. I have very little to say about how I'm used other than normal health concerns (I'm getting old lol) but I am assured I will be used in all these rolls and probably more. I am to be reduced to slave hood and well trained in that roll by a quite beautiful, younger, semi-retired pro-Domme and self avowed "sadist" who's advertisement for an FLR I answered on fetlife. Of course chastity and a collar is to be locked on at all times and I was told that I'd normally be in gimp gear or naked except for when I'm the french maid for certain household duties. Lol . Butler dress is also required at certain times. There is an element of actual slavery too in that I'm going to also do manual labor on a small homestead farm. My hope is to document my struggle right here for you all to see, and while I haven't gotten permission to do this yet I don't see it being a problem. She is planning some kind of expose' of my training, be it a blog or video series. I haven't been told exactly how yet but she "has plans". I've read so many stories of other peoples journeys and now i can't believe it's my turn! Part of me thinks I must be crazy, but the other half says - go serve her! Serve this Goddess with passion, humble reverence and submission. Bow down l o w..! Let's see who wins. Lol I hope I get permission to post here, and if so I hope you all like it. Till tomorrow then...
Hi everyone, well I'm here/there. Arrived a couple hours ago. I'm being confined to a room (covid you know) and I was given an electric pot, some ramin noodles and some eggs. Oh and a rice crispy treat. I am to be confined here for one week at which time I'll be tested for covid. If I pass I'll be given more access to the house. There is a truly gigantic pile of clean laundry in here and I am to fold it all neatly, separate it and box it up for a move in two months. I'm thinking this might take me a week but probably not. Right now I have no tv and no room to move in here. Just a mattress on the floor, some old mismatched sheets and a nice pink fuzzy blanket. My job will be to clean, organize and pack up the whole house. I will not let Mistress lift a single finger unless she wants to. And maybe even then. I want to learn to be a good slave to her with total devotion to her whim and her way. Never letting the word no pass my lips unless I absolutely have to. I want to be exceptionaly good to her and make her proud of me as her slave. I guess this is the glamorous life of a slave.
I’ll be damned. Hell, it’ll be fun tracking you as long as your owner lets you post. Good thing your quarantined she might decide you need a domestic discipline session just to find your pain tolerance.
All kidding aside. I hope for your safety someone knows where you are and who your with. I am concerned for your safety and well being. If you find yourself in a situation that you are no longer are safe or need out and do not have the means to leave please contact me.
Wow! You have left the free life, enjoyed the wide open spaces of flying commercial, and now you are locked in a little room with a mattress on the floor and a pile of clothes to fold. What a change! Do you have any idea where you are moving to? Please do tell how the airport first meeting went. Were there many people on the plane? Did your new mistress make you ride in the trunk? How do you receive your meals? Does she speak to you through the door while you are quarrintined? Enquiring minds want to know. Ss
What a great way to start a Ds/FLR I wish you both all the luck you need to make it work. I look forward to following your journey. be safe.
I have some sad news. This person turned out to be dishonest and irrisponsible so after much thought and deep regret I had to leave. The very few stipulations of our prior agreement were not honored and my health was put at considerable risk, so I had to pull the plug and return home. And this was after facing possible covid infection from the trip across the country. So now I wait to see if I am infected. She felt that as a Domme and because I was "only a slave" she could do whatever she wanted, including ignore my health issues that were spelled out long beforehand. I'm very sorry to let you all down but rest assured I will demand better communication in the future (something else she didnt see a need for) and take more/better precautions. I've been talking with over a dozen great ladies/Dommes in the last few months but due to covid this was the only one ready to engage at this time so I took the chance to make it happen and was prepared to give it all I have to give. But without trust and basic safety i could not go on. Sorry.
Such a shame, but maybe more research about the person in future before flying across country to be with a stranger. I had similar experience with someone I was potentially taking on full time 24/7 lasted 45 mins before he asked to leave. So I released him that was 7th jan he’s still pestering me to have him back now. In my eyes once Trust is broken there is no going back. Without trust there is nothing. Good luck with any future hook ups and don’t let one bad egg put you off.
It's good you found out now instead of later. You did not let anyone down. You did the right thing. It's not your fault. It was just not meant to be.
I was hoping things would go well for you. Now my hope is that you remain well. Bdsm play is just that, play. It might be impossible to take a deep dive with a stranger because between scenes you really are not someone else’s property. There are many ways to live in such a way that you will find fulfillment, safety, and be able to serve. I hope you find the right fit someday. Please don’t forgot to look close to home. Take care. Ss
Actually, this story has a safe and mature ending. You made a good decision, and, we are all confident there are good safe folks for you who have a similar respect for the 'rules' Glad you are safe!
From where I'm sitting, you were guided by your perception of her more than anything else. You wanted it to be this way or that but that's not what she thought she'd get. That's not uncommon - people tend to project their fantasies onto reality. And this leads to disappointment at best and broken hearts and lives at worst. I would suggest that next time you decide to hook up with someone you have never met try to meet them socially first. This weeds out the incompatible candidates. And I don't think I need to remind you that putting all your eggs in one basket can lead to a sticky mess. Stay safe and give it a good clear-headed think before you leap into your next adventure.
It could have ended much worse. Id think twice before accepting TPE offer from people i dont know personally for safety reasons. The sane ones would never offer this without considerable vetting period as it requires deep connection, trust and responsibility for the other. And alot of work too for the top/dom.. Abusers i imagine will try to expedite so they can have the next victim.. Im glad u realized the b.s. and got away from there fast.
Yes Ma'am I agree completely! It was unfortunately her that didnt see the need for better communication. It was all texts and a few videos recorded. I kept saying we should talk directly. Her attitude was until I get there "it's all just maybees" and she didnt believe I would show. If that's not bad enough she wouldnt even talk after I got there! Lol All I can say for sure is that I tried, I really tried. Thank you to everyone for your kind words and wisdom, it's much appreciated. I lurked on here for years! I knew you were a great group. In fact you were my main education and inspiration on and for embracing the idea of the so called female led relationship - though I prefer Woman led relationship. Since the leader isn't a horse or a pig or a chicken. Lol. Right? ; ) She is WOMAN!! : )