Hi, I'm new to chastity and yesterday I got the House of Denial HTv4 cage and need some advice with the ring. My balls can tend to be high and tight which I think doesn't help. I eventually got the 50mm ring on but my right ball would retract and slip behind the ring. I tried the 45mm ring but I felt pain so went back to 50mm. This time my ball didn't retract until I lay down in bed so I took it off. I went back to trying the 45mm ring this morning and I feel a bit uncomfortable but no pain except when my dick tried to go hard and I felt a sharp pain on the right ball. I read about the ring reshaping with body heat so I started to think the 45mm will get better with time but am I thinking about it the wrong way round? I'm really not sure if I should be using the 50mm or 45mm ring. I think I would be better with a 47mm ring if it existed. Any advice on this would be great!
I tried a few different knock offs and they all rubbed me badly in spots. I finally bought the real thing and love it and can wear it for weeks with no issues.
I remember @sissydavenport was telling me he had an issue with the new V4 rings.... maybe he can help.
It really does take some continuous wear before your body gets used to it. The 50 is too big if you can "make a break for it." So it's really about getting used to the 45. Make sure your ball skin is spread out over the ring. The pain is coming from it concentrating on the bottom.
After a bit of a break I tried again on Mon and have been caged since then. Only issues I'm having is when I wake with discomfort or a bit of pain because my dick is trying to go hard. Other than that it's completely comfortable and everything staying is in place.
The slight discomfort, thought of being completely helpless and re-realising my wife has total control of him is the best part for me! I'm sure you'll get used to it. Sadly the more days you're locked up in a row, the less hard-on attempts you get (in my experience).