I was just thinking, How real are we… Yes I’m into Chastity. But how much of a Servant / Slave are you ? How often do you cook your key holder dinner? Nope = 0/7 Who cleans the toilet – Key holder or you? I do .. How often do you bring Key holder a drink in the morning? About 1/7 Who does the vacuum cleaning? I do .. Who does the ironing – Key holder or you? I do ..
How often do you do the washing up or fill /empty dish washer ? About 2/7 Who does the main weekly food shop – Key holder or you? Keyholder…
Some of my role isn’t necessarily about d/s relationship but what I actually prefer, but will list what I think is a fairly complete list. dishes her/me …me about 100% Floors her/me … me about 100% Garbage her/me…me about 95% Bathroom her/me…me about 95% Cooking her/me…me about 98% Buying food her/me…me about 70% Bills her/me…50/50 Daily foot rubs her/me…me 100% for her Oral sex her/me…she gets 100% Orgasms her/me…40 to 1 her.
I identify as a service submissive, so i do pretty much all the cleaning and household maintenance tasks, except for cooking, which my Keyholder Wife enjoys. I am also loaned out to several of Her Friends to detail Their cars on a monthly basis and do other odd jobs. Domina has gotten to the point where She can relax and read or sew with no guilt while i work through my task list. asa
Do all house work and cook all meals although I enjoy cooking very much glass wine bit of jazz in the kitchen great unwind from work lol ...don't do her ironing though safer for 0210607789 clothes lol
Im a house hubbie… i do everything from roof leaking to cooking to washing to servicing up my wife .. i also dont wear any clothes..
@C. Roc i do all what you have writ cos thats my job to do them. but i dont do roof mending and i wear my clothes as well.
We have been doing chastity for 3 years now but we do not have a D/S or FLR mairrage.We both help each other doing all the household chores.. in the bedroom though, my wife ( keyholder) is very dominant and I am submissive.
That sounds like a good friendship, circled around the idea of teamwork. A strong and fun relationship can come from that. Having the dominance switched in the bedroom, from my perspective, secludes that role-switch to a more intimate space with your partner. Deep intimacy like that is very powerful. I feel both partners should have their own say in conversation and decision (very different for every dynamic), whereas sometimes the D/s dynamic is so enhanced in every aspect of life, removing all choice from the caged. That is sought after, and is not bad or wrong, but maybe my own bias appreciates and thrives for a similar dynamic you have with yours.