I use an elastic shport strap to keep the cage from slipping down too much. But sometimes, like when I bend down, you can see the strap peeking out. I'm worried that someone might comment on it. What's a good explanation/ excuse? I can't think of any
That's a good question, I just got mine today, and put it on. It mad a big difference in positioning. I will have to think about your question incase I need to answer it myself. If I think of anything I will get back to you.
You could alternatively prevent the problem from happening... One solution is to wear longer tops that hang over any exposed area above your waistband. Or a wear a normal belt that always sits higher than your elastic support strap. Or wear different underwear that gives the support you need rather than using a strap. Or... have additional straps to keep the waist strap below your clothing waistline. Have a look at typical pegging harnesses, something like may be able to keep it all low and out of sight. If you prefer wearing looser underwear that doesn't support your cage, yet another way would be to sew loops of ribbon to the inside of your underwear waistbands, and then thread the support elastic through that. Even if the waistband shows, the strap will always be hidden underneath then.
Mostly this, but I do try to minimize accidental sightings by using paracord that is reasonably close to my skin color. If asked you could always go with "it's medical" or "I pulled a muscle" and if you get a follow up question go with "It's personal [or embassasing] and I'd rather not talk about it".
Another vote here for right underwear, get rid of those loose boxers and get some good snug briefs or thong/jock they make all the difference.
You could add a piece of material to the back that could be tucked under your pants. This would make it look like a thong. No one would question it then. They would just think you are a little risque. Problem solved.
For me it has two problems. 1. Tip of penis getting pinched against underwear or scrotum skin getting pinched between underwear and cage. 2. Damp environment, especially between penis and scrotum.
I don’t use a support strap but that may help with my small right testicle retracting though the device. What is it called and where can I get one please?
I use a support strap and sometimes it shows. I really don’t care what anyone thinks. I do what makes me and my wife happy.
I've noticed the way I dress doesn't allow mi e to be seen, I usually have my shirt tucked in with a belt on, or if I'm wearing dress shorts it's the same. Gym time is when I'm at risk of exposure. but I really don't care anymore so they can wonder all they want.
A few years back I was expected to shower at the gym while locked. It was an open style shower. Others could easily see, but few did. Most guys don’t actually shower on site. When asked, I always said my device was a hernia support. The strap would make that line even more plausible.