Today is Thursday 1/26/23. I have been locked since Sunday 1/22/23. This is the longest period of time that I have been locked. Rookie numbers, I know. But I need to start somewhere I suppose. Monday evening Mistress teased me with her feet while locked for the first time. It was wonderful. One of the best feelings I have ever experienced. I think Mistress enjoyed watching me squirm and moan in blissful agony. Of course I was denied release. Tuesday night Mistress unlocked me and allowed PIV sex. It felt amazing. Physically, mentally, emotionally, it was one of the greatest sexual experiences I had ever had. The nights just keep getting better. I was wondering if this would be the end of my locked streak until later days. But no. Mistress locked me back up before bed time! Wednesday night though. Oh it was rough. Mistress was tired and had no interest in playing with me, teasing me, or engaging really at all with my locked member. That was a different experience. Mistress was not coming from a place or malice or ill will. Mistress was, simply put, tired from a long day. We snuggled and that still was amazing! Let's see what the next few days bring!
I finally have a moment to provide a little update! So Thursday night we lied in bed and watched some t&d clips. One in particular of a dominant ruining their partner's orgasm, then forcing them to drink it. Yummy! After that we broke out the new Magic Wand Plus. Plugged that sucker in and went to town. I treated Mistress to the first orgasm of our relationship's chastity era. After that I was treated to our first sissygasm. Unfortunately we did not lock up after and I did enter a bit of sub drop throughout the weekend, but I was directed back into my cage by Mistress on Sunday night. Week two coming up
About 1/2 way through our second week of chastity. Our approach at the moment appears to be more fun and games like, rather than lifestyle like. That's great. I'm enjoying myself and so is Mistress. Our routine appears to be: 1. Get locked, 2. Wait approx 48 hours, 3. Be horny, 4. Watch a porno together, 5. Mistress orgasm, 6. PIV, 7. Lock back up within 24 hrs.
Sounds like a great place to start! Even if it never ends up more serious, as long as you are both having fun is all that matters!
Wow. Subcrash, subdrop, or whatever it goes by, that's a real thing. Luckily mistress has been kind enough to allow me a few hours to a day or two to recover before we go back into chastity. However, I screwed up yesterday. After being allowed to go the day free, I came home and I masturbated after work. I felt guilty. Later that night. I confessed my error, and of course was immediately directed to put my cage back on. We'll see what is in store for me later, I'm actually a little bit worried about the potential punishment.
Lifestyle can be fun and games too! You've only got to do something silly like change step 2 to "Wait twice as long as the last time you waited" and it doesn't take long before you find that neither of you want to live without it. As they say, "Be careful what you wish for!" I have been constantly surprised with what I've learnt about myself, how my body functions and what really makes me happy, since we started doing male chastity. So don't be worried, it's a journey of adventure well worth travelling.
I was allowed a few days of rest from chastity to recover from a bit of pain under my scrotum where the ring makes contact. A line had developed with light bruising, no broken skin. Basically I was having too many erections while locked. During this break I managed not to masterbate. This is actually a big achievement for me because I am a habitual masturbator. I'm talking 2 or 3 times daily p.c. (pre chastity). Well last night Mistress was leaving our house just as I was arriving home. Mistress directed me to the bedroom as She left. On my pillow was my cage and a pair of purple panties for me to wear. I am now about 15 hours into my current lockup looking forward to what is next.
I am currently doing some experimenting with the anti-pull out set that CB-X sells. I have been using the smallest "C" size and I feel it fits comfortably enough when flaccid. I do struggle a tad with attempted erection pain and attempted erection urination. No pain and no urination issues while completely flaccid. I may mess around with the medium size "B", however I already manager one pull out using the "B" size. Currently on lockup with "C" anti-pull out for 3 hours. I am not too sure when Mistress will allow me out. Last night I treated Mistress to a nice long backrub. I was allowed to worship Her feet too!
Dang it's been over two months since a post. Still doing our thing. Since my last post I have acquired The Vice. When left without lube, I cannot slide my penis out. I started with the 44mm ring, mini cage, small spacer, and small vice. After about two days I needed to switch out the small vice for the medium vice and that has worked well so far. I have not been able to touch my penis. With the cb I was permitted to pull out for a moment in the shower for a wash then return it to the cage. I am not able to do that with the vice, which I enjoy! But it is a bit flimsy for my liking. My next cage will be a size to fit, quality piece. Aside from the chastity. We have been engaging in a bit more feminization. When I come home from work now I am directed to put on a pair of panties and I am now directed to sleep in one of two nighties (one romper and one skirt). I am also required to use a pair of fuzzy high heels as my house slippers. This has been super fun and erotic. Mistress has allowed me more access to her feet. This has been super exciting as well. In the evening when watching TV I am positioned at her feet in the couch and she rubs them on me and I kiss and massage them. Yay! On sort of a 3-4 days locked, then o, then unlock for a day, then locked again cycle. It's been great!
I've spent probably the longest stretch of time outside the cage last week than I have in the last two months or so. Pretty much mon thru Fri I was out. And it felt super weird. Like, not the same. I'm forgetting what it's like to present masculine because I'm spending so much time caged, painted, and painted at home. We're on a like 3 to 5 day locked and 1 to 2 day out. But this week I was out the entire week. And what's more crazy is that last night I put panties on without my cage for the first time and my goodness do my pieces look small in my panties compared to when I have my cage on. I felt extra small in fact. Like my pathetic cock and balls didn't fit as apparently as they would while caged. It was a bit embarrassing. Tonight though I put my vice back on. I may slip into the cbx if I keep getting attempted erections. I'm so excited to be back in that I can't calm down. The vice is great if I can stay limp, but I've been a constant erection since I've returned to the cage. If I'm going to stay plump, no need for the vice. Anyway. More later.
Big things happening in the last few weeks. About 3-4 weeks ago we have decided to make our summer relationship a 24/7 power exchange dynamic. I am locked in chastity unless I use a safe word or negotiate a cleaning. I am pantied unless completing a task that requires boxer briefs, intense manual labor for example. I am tasked with chores which I shall complete in my maid uniform. These and other tasks earn in house currency that may be worn as decoration or exchanged for rewards, or both. Ot course there are consequences for bad behavior. That said, we've been exploring experimenting the last few weeks and are ready for a firm execution in the coming days. I'll keep you posted.
Thank you. I was just reflecting on how I feel my mental health has positively changed. I'm not as depressed. Mistress is super happy and enjoying life. All is good right now!