Looking for ideas

Mine likes foot rubs. Getting off isn't her thing it's more being pampered and a clean house. I can use foot rubs I have banked to ask to be spanked or something she enjoys doing but not to get out of cage. Curiosity though how are you going to be restrained an entire weekend?

 

We are not an FLR couple, but my wife does have a kinky side and likes to occasionally express and enjoy pleasure. This happens mostly during the summer when the pool is open and the weather is nice. I am naked except for my cage, wrist and ankle cuffs, and a collar. We might be alone of she has a GF over and I have to serve them during the day and night. If I mess up, its 10 lashed with a strap or what ever else she has on hand. I am usually confined to a chair if they start to play and have hot fun with each other.

On some occasions when Sunday evening approaches, she may either let me out of leave me all cuffed and tease my balls until I leak. It normally depends on her mood and how tired she is at the end of the weekend. The good news, the following weekend she lets me out and I get to have some fun.

 

Spanking bench is on my wish list but with kids one I want is hard to get away with. They have those portable ones but getting to use it maybe a day twice a month is hard to justify.

 

May I suggest this:

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Buy two and have a race across the floor. The winner gets released. The loser doesn't.

 

i dont know what that thingy is or dose but it looks like it wud hurt horrible and i can see some little things that looks like they stick into you.

 

She might not bring the key back for ever and ever.

 

Does she have a boyfriend?

 

That is such a great point. My punishments are a little painful but we are definitely are realizing that if we want to really break me of my bad behaviors and truly train me to become the boy that she wants then the punishments may have to be much more intense and severe. For example, when she uses the cane or the shock collar on my balls it stops min my tracks and drops me to my knees. I’m a perfect gentleman when she does this

 

We are very much in the same situation. What started out as some playful fun with her occasionally topping me has developed into a full blown FLR with her looking to train me to get rid of some behaviors that she doesn’t like. And very importantly is that I’m recognizing that if we are going to do this we have to be very consistent and it’s going to take a very heavy hand on her part.

 

That’s a great point and a great idea. We discussed it and are going to use red and yellow. We are going to have a session tonight so I will let you know how it goes

 

This was my introduction to chastity over 15 years ago. It was quite an adventure. We lived in a lifestyle nudist community and belonged to 3 sex clubs in the area. So, what may seem farfetched to some was not unusual to us. So here is how I was introduced to chastity. It lasted three weeks but I'll share week one with you. you can create your own version of the game.

A number of years ago my former girlfriend was searching the web for an adult toy when she saw an article about a rapidly growing use of a male chastity device. Equal numbers in the tens of thousands of the male chastity device were being purchased by straight men and women online. She showed me the article and pictures of the best of hundreds of different models and an idea for a game sprouted. Here is the game my girlfriend came up with which would be my introduction to the chastity lifestyle. Hide and Seek Chastity.


After the chastity cage arrived I left her alone in the house for an hour so she could hide the key. We take the hiding places seriously. No easy places. Some past hiding places for example were inside a sealed frozen food box. Under the toilet cleaner block in the toilet tank, buried in a potted plant, inside a CD case, taped under the computer keyboard and under the leg of the couch.


When I came back she locked me up. She agreed that she would text me a clue once a day as to where the key was. She loved to text me the clue at work or when I was out with the guys. Just one clue a day (no fake clues by the way). I was locked in the chastity cage until I found the key no matter how long it took.


She told me that if I didn’t find it by the weekend she had an embarrassing humiliating consequence for me. I began searching harder


It took three weeks before she gave me this final clue. Unscramble these letters and you will see that every clue was fair and useful. IEBAFCERS


The key was taped inside a divider in the briefcase I took to work every day.


What hiding places have you come across or new ones you would suggest for a game of Hide and Seek.




Here was the first set of clues:


Monday: I can’t believe you walk past it numerous times today and didn’t even look for it. Did you remember to put on the new briefs I bought you to help conceal your new manhood bulge?



Tuesday: The key is usually in the dark but it is visible in the light several times a week. Just in case you’re wondering…. no on second thought I don’t want to spoil it.


That night when I got home she called and said diner is ready. I walked into the dining room and she was naked on the table and turned on her trusty rabbit. She had an intense squirting orgasm. She looked at me and said, “now you get to start with dessert so get busy.”


Wednesday: The key is hidden under some of that clear packing tape you keep in your office so that you can still see the key.


Thursday: There is more than one lock that you are looking for.


Friday: There is something remotely related to the hiding place that could be connected to bondage

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Saturday: “Tonight is the night of your first consequence so you are going to sit naked locked up in front of the computer while I select different porn sites that I pulled up from your browsing history. My you are quite a busy “closet jack off boy” aren’t you? Since you just spent the week working I’ll cue up some of those horny secretary videos you seem to like. You can jack-off to your heart’s content. I won’t watch… I doubt you will be making a mess anyway since you’re locked in that cage.”


Sunday she said it was obvious that I was really craving a release. She felt sorry for me so she said she would unlock me for 45 seconds. Forty-five minutes earlier she had given a Viagra. Then she tied up my legs and arms. She brought in a bell kitchen timer and set it for 45 second. When she started the timer she freed only my left hand. She knew I was right handed. I couldn’t wait. In about 30 seconds I was fully erect. With 15 seconds left she started the countdown louder and louder. The bell rang and she ripped my left hand away and placed a zip lock bag of ice on my crotch. Talk about frustrated. The 45 seconds were over and I was back in the chastity device.


My search became frantic and I didn’t want to face another weekend.

The following week clues are as follows:


Monday: You looked so pitiful seeking your release so I will try to make the clues easier. You must divide and conquer to find the key.


Tuesday: The key is hidden inside something you can pick up with one hand even the left one that failed you so badly on Sunday..


Wednesday: I want to make the clues even easier because you look so frustrated when you were searching last night. So in case you wondering if the key is impossible to find I will tell you that the key is hidden inside something in plain sight.


Thursday: The key is hidden in something that comes in many shapes, sizes, colors and designs but all serve the same purpose.


Friday: The key is hidden in something that has a recognizable smell.

Saturday: She made me model the cage for her girlfriends


Sunday: She took me to an ABS with gloryhole booths. She strip me naked, cuffed my wrist behind me, slipped on a pair of crotchless panties, put on an eye face mask, fastened a collar and leash on me and paraded me up and down the hall outside of the gloryhole booths for all to see to cat calls and whistles. When we got back to our booth and put me on my knees in front of the gloryhole. When a cock poked through the hole she said, that’s enough unless you want more? I begged her to let me get dressed and leave and we did as fast as I could.

 

We always used a safe word, but it was more of a pause than a stop, my Madam is a real sadist and loves to push limits and make it known it’s about her pleasure not mine.