The role of feet in a chastity relationship

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    There does seem to be a relatively common theme here whereby her feet become a regular focal point of chastity relationships.

    Whether you already have a raging foot fetish, or a new interest in her pedicured toes blossoms created by being allowed to humbly massage her feet as a treat.

    So, how do her feet feature in your chastity relationship?
     
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    She loves foot rubs I hate them always will. I do it because she enjoys it but there's no foot fetishes ever in my future. So sadly feet do play a role, not just one I enjoy.
     
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    Not sure if this is related to a "chastity relationship" and even unsure what a "chastity relationship" means. If you refer to a FLR I would say that a sub should always think about the dom/partner and no other person and this includes to love everything about Herr, including feet.
    Also its a sign of intimacy and trust if you her feet on your face.
    At least I love it, either I developed a foot fetish or I just loved her feet.
    Very likely its both :)
     
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    I think you’re right, whatever about having a foot fetish or not, there is definitely something intimate about tending to your partner’s feet - whether that’s simply giving her a relaxing foot massage, or her resting her bare feet right on your face!!
     
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    In December after 3 months in chastity my mistress said one night that I would be released and allowed sex. She took off my cage and ordered me to lick her feet which she had kept unwashed and sweaty by wearing a couple of pairs of thick socks all day. After I had licked both and sucked her toes for a long time she said, "you may have sex." She put both feet together and pointed at her feet.
     
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    I’ve had a foot fetish forever. The chastity just increases that along with most other urges lol. She’s always getting foot rubs. I am always more than happy to massage kiss or worship her perfect feet
     
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    From the beggining when my Wife and I met, she has always loved getting her feet rubbed. I never had a problem doing it. It helped her relax after a hard day at work(When we worked). We always used our feet during forplay. She would give me a "foot job", which I always liked. Our feet (Toes) would be used to masturbate each other. She has had her toes in my anus and all over my penis & balls, and I have toed her to orgasm many times. Never thought of it as a fetish, just something else to use to have fun with.
    Now, I give my Wife (KH) foot massages all the time, but I always did. So I guess it plays a part.
     
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    My wife's feet play a part of our fun! I have just naturally loved on her feet since we were teenagers. Always let her have them in my lap, rub em all the time.

    Now they are incorporated into our tease and denial cos she knows how her feet look turn me on, so now I paint her toe nails for her and she loves it and it teases the shit outta me!!
     
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    Hi,

    Having lightly looked into this, I previously held the belief that:

    The ‘hot feet’, hypothesis, proposed by neurologist and hypothesis-proposing machine V. S. Ramachandran in “Phantoms in the Brain”, was inspired by the fact that feet lie adjacent to the genitals in the ‘map’ of the body found in the primary somatosensory cortex (S1) which is where touch sensation is first processed in the brain.

    But having recently looked more into the topic, it would appear on face value that more recent studies held by Oliver Turnbull, Bangor University (as one example) are placing doubts on this commonly held theory with their small size based online study, this would hold little in the way of value but stll, it exists.

    Personally, I believe some merit may lie in the original hypothesis.

    Goddess Jade.
     
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    A dream come true for me!
     
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    Feet aren't my thing but most days she would rather have a foot rub than any form of sex. She gets more uniform pleasure for a proper lotion-rich care of her soles.

    I'm happy to do it but it doesn't play a role in our chastity play. I will say she puts the foot not being rubbed at the moment on my cage in a very deliberate fashion. I enjoy that aspect of it.
     
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    I was not a foot person. At all. I would rub someone’s feet if asked but it did nothing for me sexually, and was no different than rubbing her shoulders.

    Then came chastity. The longer the period of denial, the more pent up I was, the more desperate for contact and desire to serve became. Soon I was volunteering to rub them.

    One day as I was about to put lotion on them to rub, I had this need to lick and suck on them. I inhaled their scent, tasted them, and I was in a submissive stupor. Lost in them. She enjoyed it, and I of course gave her a proper rub with lotion when I was finished.

    So now foot worship has become a treat she gives me, a chance to taste, smell, and actively submit to her in an almost primal way.

    I certainly didn’t see it coming, so yes I believe there is a chastity submission connection.
     
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    At the end of last summer I got a reflexology book. We were both super into it and for what seemed like the whole last month of my initial 3 month lock up period, we ended up doing foot worship only and somehow not even getting round to oral, not sure it was intentional on her part. I use coconut oil and found myself licking her feet before massage before the stale sweat would be gone by applying the oil. My theory is that although I'm tasting something that should be unpleasant, and some nights the first few licks would be quite an overpowering taste of salty sweat, I'm getting a huge dose of pheromones at the same time. Often when I got to between her toes I regretted starting but thought she would notice and I would hurt her feelings if I didn't do it properly. The taste would last for a long time and unfortunately sometimes I would be sent to brush my teeth when I tried to kiss her afterwards. "You taste like feet".
     
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    my wife and I are not feet persons, but she does groan a little when we are in the missionary position and I suck on her big toe.
     
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    “feet persons” :)
     
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    I love doing that, and she seems to think it’s hot as well
     
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    This is what I mean about unrealistic fantasies. I mean, are you married to a contortionist?
     
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    Lol, don’t lean in so far!
     
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    I never had a foot fetish before starting chastity. My wife started it by asking for foot rubs just for relief after a "long day on my feet at work". Now I think that even if the chastity stopped, and she stopped work, we'd both still want to continue enjoying me loving her feet.
     
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    For me, a foot fetish & chastity are not directly related. I'm not particularly attracted to or turned on by feet. However, in many cultures feet are considered "low" or unclean (literally & figuratively). So worshiping feet appeals to my submissive tendencies. And I have come to appreciate a well-formed foot. Some feet are indeed beautiful, especially if belonging to a dominant woman. Other feet, not so much. Anyway, that's how it works for me.
     
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    I've tried to discover what is going on with my fetishes as I am keen on evolution science and although I have reproduced my kinks don't make sense. The situation I am in just now is the opposite of procreative instinct although my gf has done her family bit and is postmenopausal so it's a moot point. I am one example where foot worship and submissiveness is not learned, I was born with it. At a very young age I saw things like "v" and and a toddler programme where the female presenter was blindfolded and had to guess she was walking on chipstones. It was about sensation but all I cared about was that she was being made to hurt her feet blindfolded. It was many years later that I even thought about what's going on between people's legs.

    I saw from an early age that kissing or licking the feet is the ultimate act of submission. I could see it on TV on stuff that was appropriate to kids. Let's say I have learnt there are more acts of submission but that is for another post.

    I suppose I'm a throw back. It's more than likely that my caveman ancestors would be procreating with a dirty anus, vagina and feet pointing toward them, all in their own splendid ways. To finish the job they would have to endure or embrace the women's natural smells. So to overcome disgust in a way maybe has created a genetic fetish in me?

    There's no real gold pot at the end of the rainbow. Once I've licked the stale sweat from my mistress' feet they are just a part of her that I fancy very much. I massage them, do relexology on them and occasionally she will choose for me to have sex between her feet. If you don't get the fetish perhaps you never will. If you partner is willing I would advise to dive in and try to enjoy this power play.
     
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    My wife has beautiful feet so that helps! She's been complimented many times about how cute her feet are. So it's a real joy to massage and kiss them for her. I believe my worship of her is all about feeding my submissive side and making her feel like the center of attention. While watching TV together I'll casually massage or rub them, leaning down for a kiss from time to time.
     
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    I love when my wife puts her feet on my face and shoves her toes in my mouth. I love watching her toes run up and down my hard cock. Especially when there is precum and she gets it on her toes and then puts her toes in my mouth to lick it off.
    I would love it if she made me neal in front of her and masterbate to her feet and if I was allowed to cum, I wish she would make me lick it up off her toes.
    I love rubbing her feet and feeling along the arch and between her toes. Getting hard just writing about it.
     
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