As previously mentioned, for us, chastity is neither a religion or an obsession, but one of many variants we use to spice up our sex life. However, unlike some of the other things we have experience, there is a definite attraction of power for my wife. In the past, 2 weeks of denial was as long as either of us had experienced with this and when the orgasms were finally allowed they were mind blowing intense. Thus we were both rewarded by the experience. This is the 4th weekend of enforced chastity (with only brief weekly breaks for hygiene/skin checks and her orgasms), twice as long as ever experienced and exponentially more frustrating. She had already had her pleasure several times this weekend and openly threatened me that if I did not control myself and shot my load that it would be another 3 weeks of enforced chastity. I honestly acknowledged that I would rather have my cock pierced before spending another 3 weeks in this infernal device. So during her pleasure I concentrated on not cumming. This afternoon she let me know that we were going to “Fuck and if you come so be it.” I eagerly stripped and crawled in bed and laid on my back since she always topped me. She asked what I was doing and I told her that I was doing what she asked. She said no I didn’t, I said we would fuck. At that point I realized she had the strap on behind her back. Sure enough she did me and I honestly believe it was not to get her own pleasure or to give me pleasure but to further establish her dominance over me. After 10 minutes she said that was enough and if I continue to be good she will release me next weekend. You can bet I will be on my best behavior. I know she will probably let me out since this has always been mutual but I don’t think she will ever fully relinquish her power.
Chastity control can be very addictive,I used to be locked for days.Then months.Now working on a full year
It's all about breaking old habits. Just one of those evolutionary things that boys hands have a nice toy just at a convenient place to play with . Once you break that habit then you find other things to do . Xx Wendy