After some weeks of foreign travel, many airport security checks, including a fairly familiar pat down in Singapore! Staying with other people (not just hotels) it wasn't really possible to be in chastity for some time. On return home I'm locked again. For me I'm just really happy to be locked up again, slept for the first time in weeks locked up and it just feels so right, feels like like coming home where I'm meant to be. Being outside the cage somehow feels lacking in some way and I don't like it. Do many others here have that "coming home" feeling when being relocked, or is it just uncomfortable obedience for others? I have listened to https://vive-hypnosis.com/hypnosis/you-are-naked-without-your-cage/ a fair many times with earphones on my evening walks, so maybe it worked after all?
Same similar for me… had an issue with my piercing so had to remove the cage for about 7 days while it calmed down. Just put the cage back on yesterday and it feels “right”, but also was very arousing this time around. It has been over 80 days since I had my last full O so I’m sure that’s a part of it too lol!
I find that I prefer to be locked also. I'm getting more "addicted" to the feelings of being locked. As others have stated in this thread, it just feels right. When I have a doctor's appointment and remove my cage for the visit, the first thing I want to do is get home is put on my cage ASAP. I've been playing with chastity since 2020 ( self locking) and now it has become a part of my life to the point that I feel like something is missing when not locked. It has taken a few years to progress to that point. Simply stated, I love being locked.
I know the feeling no cage makes me feel lost. Even sleeping without it I toss and turn all night. When caged I just wake with night time erections which pass quickly.
I had a few years without being locked,. The whole time I felt like I needed it again. Felt good when I finally relocked again for the first time.
Yes it's always good to be home. I checked out your gallery and saw that spiked cast iron looking cage. I sure wouldn't like to come home to that thing. It's pure damn evil. All I can say is "OUCH!!".
I used to wear a watch 24x7 until our sex life went from Zero to 60 Overnight and we started sleeping naked every night. The watch was definitely in the way so it stays outside the bedroom. But after wearing it for so many years, I still feel naked without it during the day when I don't put it on right away after waking up. The same has happened with my cage. I've not gone more than a couple of days without it. But it gives me feelings of safety and security. The few times I've had it off for a day or two were times we were traveling together and in one another's company 24x7. I really noticed it when we returned home and started to return to normal living; that's when the void was immediately clearly evident.
Out again and will be for 4 weeks (probably) but back in time for LOctober? Yesterday got the AP done, so it's at the bleeding and sanitary towels stage. Going to be a while before locking again
I agree. I lock up as and when my wife tells me. I always look forward to our agreed text telling me to get the cage on. It's a relief to feel it on me again.