I was into a lovely 30+ day lock-up last fall, and my darlin' went into about 90 days of really bad fibro -- mild discomfort up to major pain....
I find that I keep toying with who I could tell about being caged. I find I get pretty wound up by the thought. There isn't any follow-up...
I put on my first cage about this time last year. My Darlin' spouse was surprised and puzzled, but game to go with it. She tends not to have...