chaste socializing

Hello all! I am new here and looking to explore chastity. 25M hoping to make my first moves into this! I don’t have a KH as of yet so I will need to practice self locking. wondered if anybody could recommend a good starting device, and tips for how to make myself be determined? thanks all

Do any of the couples here find enjoyment in playing or socializing with other couples living the chaste lifestyle? If you've never done it, have you ever thought about it? I am curious about the mechanics therein... Many fun ideas on the horizon as of late. :)