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I ordered a new cage , it will arrive on nov 4th . I dont have any owner to hold my keys Any advices for maintaining the cage ? I too have the tendency to unlock the cage when i start to use it Any suggestions???

A summary of chastity journey with my Ex-wife, why we divorce and what I enjoy now with my loving and caring partner. pleasure to be locked for someone who appreciate it. The intimacy the connection it create. It also another experience of a man that sometime can dominate in the bedroom (i'm...

My greetings goes on to every one here, fellow Mistress, Goddess, Master, Dominatrix. Debbie

I initially locked to focus on my Wife and family rather than myself. During the nearly 15 years we have been together, I was often angry or insensitive. Also, I was so detached from what was going on around me that I couldn’t confidently name even one of my kids’ friends. I eventually hit...

Hello all! I am newly a keyholder and still trying to figure out my level of comfort with my dominance and the whole dynamic really. I have researched my heart out and continue to do so. What I haven’t heard much about is having a FLR and not living together. My boyfriend and I have not been...

Sorry to be asking so many newbie keyholder questions! I want to lead my partner sexually and I am pretty sure he wants that too. We're both excited by this. But I don't want to lead him in other ways in our relationship and I hope he doesn't come to want that. I've just posted a blog about...

Hi All, I made a playlist on my smartphone with FLR / DS lyrics. Intro - Tulisa (Female Boss) If ya wanna be bad - Bryan Adams Female - Keith Urban Have you ever really loved a woman? (From Don Juan DeMarco) - Bryan Adams Everything I Do - Bryan Adams Sisters are doing it for themselves -...

Im looking for a mistress who is not doing it as job, only for fun would like to know anyone interested! Please dm me with conditions. (Only massaging with instructions are fine)

I am a male and have wife and she is getting acquainted with Chastity and other forms of play. Looking for a source for her to seek out and become more self initiated in Dominant play.

Hey everyone! I wanted to start a new thread because I am going into territory that I never thought I would dare to go lol...I need some advice please. For those that read my other threads you already know the journey I have been on and where I am currently at. For those that don't know my...

Hi, all, Very sub here, very into BDSM, humiliatioin, degradation, punishment, etc. Been experimenting with chastity off and on for a few years now; longest i've gone without release is one month. I look at chastity from a BDSM point of view -- it's a way to use a slave's own sexual desires to...

Dear Keyholders, I am curious and have a follow on question to Abstraction's earlier question: Abstraction, Jun 6, 2020 Dear keyholders, from what I see, most of the time it's the man who takes the first step. I'd like to know if anyone has had experience initiating chastity with their...

Hey, so me and my partner have been doing chastity on and off for nearly a year now, main reason being because he has an obsession with wanking and not giving me any attention. It was he’s idea to start it all and it went well in the beginning then we stopped and we have started again as he...

At some point, when she wants to put a man in chastity, unless he is tied up, he submits and puts it on or allows her to put it on. It doesn't just go on by itself. (Yet.) That said, have any subs and slaves here refused to go back into chastity? Why did you not submit? Consequences?

I have recently been punished, my fault, and I was just wondering...........is it part of the process to break down the old me....before re-building to my Mistresses desired persona? I haven't worded it great but I just feel like she is tearing away my manliness and all those associated male...