mind fuck

I would be grateful for some advice on two things which are rather new to us. There’s a fairly long back-story, (here, and also here, and this too) but essentially: I would be very grateful for any tips on using numbing cream and a condom. (I want him inside me, but I don’t want him to come...

After a few attempts, I want to devote myself more fully to chastity. Longest I've gone is one month, but that was a long time ago, and more recent attempts have ended in failure. I've started again on Thursday, with a three day commitment. And while that seems modest, other attempts haven't...