new keyholder

  1. LadyAnneOfTheNorth

    2025 is already a heck of a year...

    So, after a really crappy 2024, I was sincerely hoping that 2025 would be a fresh start. Unfortunately, things just sort of continued on the same crappy way as they do. I was trying to shake up my life by putting an ad on FetLife (don't bother looking, the ads are gone and I deleted my account...
  2. Briar Rose

    Trans woman looking to be a keyholder in Arizona

    Trans woman. I always start with that because I'm not in the mood to be called a catfish or a trap. If you're not "into all that" just leave, don't harass me. Anyway looking to be a keyholder in Arizona (I'll give my exact city in private message). My experience is limited and I've never held...
  3. Briar Rose

    Trans woman looking to be a keyholder in Az

    Hello all! I am a Trans woman! I always start with that because I am not about to be accused of being a catfish or a trap. Not "into all that" fine, just leave don't harass me. Anyway I'm in AZ (we can private message exact location) and I'm looking to be a keyholder. My experience is limited...
  4. L

    New Keyholder Advice/Tips?

    My wife and I are new to chastity. We are both really enjoying it. She is having fun and also trying to understand it better. I’m considering asking her to read the book Male Chastity A Guide For Keyholders because it sounds like it is geared towards some of the questions she may have and might...
  5. Spellingmistake

    Brand New KH and loving it

    Hey all! I’m new to this site and new to the role of KH in general but falling more in love with the idea and feelings every day. I’m honored to be in this spot and can’t wait to see where the next several weeks-months take me and my caged. I’d love some references to threads of other KH’s...
  6. L

    Hello

    Hey everyone! We’re really new to this. I locked my boyfriend almost a week ago. I have a general idea of what to do, but I’ve never really been the ‘dominant’ person in a relationship and most punishments (pain) aren’t interesting to me. I’d love some pointers or ideas from some more...
  7. Ms King

    Hello! Experienced Master, new to Key Holding

    Hello there, I’ve always been Dom(me) but myself and my partner are moving into a more full-on dynamic, with greater power exchange and chastity. I’m all for it in theory, but tend to overthink in practice. I need to learn to trust my judgement more. My boy is beautifully subservient, but...
  8. JJ MM

    Finally have a keyholder!

    Christmas of 2016 I met a wonderful little lady named Abby. We began our little whirlwind not even two weeks later, got engaged in August, will be married in May. Today, I finally grew a pair and broached the subject of chastity. I told her I had a few cages, and that it would be fun if she...
  9. keyholder_wife

    New to CM forum, and new to being a KH.

    Hubby and I have been married for almost 7 years, and our sex life slowly dwindled due to boredom. Hubby came across chastity, and since I'm a bit of a control freak and he's a bit of a submissive kinda guy, he took interest in this and brought it up to me. I was definitely shocked, I'd never...
  10. SheLocksMeUp

    I think I have a new keyholder!

    So, after searching high and low, I was contacted by a nice lady, who wanted to see if we would be compatible. Let's call her T. It seems we are, and she is writing up a contract for us. My wife is heavily involved, and they are talking a lot. Actually, they talk to each other a lot more...