new to chastity

Hi! I'm new to chastity and I've had an acquaintance help me so far but one thing that I'm left with doing on my own is sizing. They let me borrow a cheap one for a while and I measured the ring that fit best and decided to order a Cherry Keeper with a standard cage and a 47mm flat ring. This...

Hey everyone, I’m new to chastity. I was intrigued by the thought of my wife controlling how/if/when I had an orgasm. I have been married for 10 years now. I work out of state and only come home every other weekend. Me and my wife seemed to have slowly grown apart intimately and wanted to try...

Hello, I am new here and fairly new to chastity. Looking forward to experience more about this lifestyle and being apart of its community. My longest time caged is 3 day, and longest denial 7 days. Hopefully I can push myself farther in the future with the support from this community.

Hello, I am new here! My husband recently requested we try a male chastity device. He has a masturbation habit that is out of control. I am honestly just trying this to help him explore his kink. Truthfuly I have lots of questions and he has a general idea of what he wants out of this I on the...

I am new to the chastity world. Unfortunately for both of us, he has kept this to himself for a very long time because he was afraid to tell me. 10+ years ago we ventured into wearing rubber and going to nightclubs that were for like minded people. When I think back he has always been a little...

Day 1 - 2/27/18 Hello everyone! My name is Ashe, I am a 26yo male weighing in at around 250lbs with thick brown hair and deep brown eyes, my penis reaches a meager 4.7" on a good day, and on Friday February 23, 2018 my wife of three years agreed to lock me up. We placed an order for a cage at...

Hello Don't really know how to start, so I will just jump right in with both feet. I'm defiantly new to this. It all started because of guilt. Guilt from masturbating. I felt like I was cheating on my wife. Who I love dearly. I had no control over the urges to do the deed. Finally I...

Hello CM people Long time lurker, and have decided to become active in the community. I have read many, many forum posts and have loved them. I have wanted to be locked up for ages and only 2 days ago "grew the balls" (pun intended) to go to a shop and buy a device. I am very much a newbie...

When I lived in NYC it was said that we did not like the light at the end of the tunnel because it is New Jersey. :) Despite that we moved to NJ and lived there in four different cities for the bulk of our life. Sort of like how we started chastity. I saw the light as something that was...

Hubby and I have been married for almost 7 years, and our sex life slowly dwindled due to boredom. Hubby came across chastity, and since I'm a bit of a control freak and he's a bit of a submissive kinda guy, he took interest in this and brought it up to me. I was definitely shocked, I'd never...

Yesterday, we bought a CB6000s, and I put it on at around 10am, then last night I had my key holder unlock me after a lot of teasing, but I couldn't get hard, all though I felt hard. I have never had a device before, let alone never had one on me before. When I put it on, of course I was never...

Hi everyone. My fiancé and I are new to the chastity lifestyle. I am 25 and she is 26. We have been together for 8 and a half years now. We have a house together that we moved into last summer. We just recently got engaged and plan to get married in 2018. We certainly aren't a vanilla couple as...

Just wanted to say hi from the southern state of Texas of the United States. Have always been a some-what submissive male. In my vanilla life, I am very alpha and have worked very alpha type jobs, but tonight I handed over my key. I love my wife and K/H more than life itself and now have the...

I bought a metal cock cage and lock a while ago but have only put it on for short periods of time giving in to temptation almost immediately after feeling the urge begin to grow. I have been feeling especially girly lately as I've begun replacing my masculine underwear with bikini and thong cut...