numbing cream

I would be grateful for some advice on two things which are rather new to us. There’s a fairly long back-story, (here, and also here, and this too) but essentially: I would be very grateful for any tips on using numbing cream and a condom. (I want him inside me, but I don’t want him to come...

Last night was my 60 day celebration of Chastity and denial. My Mistress allowed me to have some pleasure, with conditions! I had two choices, 1. Have fun with my dildo and take as long as I wished.....but remain in my tight cage. 2. Have fun with my dildo, take my cage off but only have 30...