psychology

  1. despita2

    The watch story

    A Lesson in Perspective I used to be late whenever I was meeting my wife. It wasn’t intentional—I’d often get lost in my own dreams or distractions, losing track of time. This habit frustrated her, and I knew it wasn’t fair. One day, we decided I’d start wearing a watch. At first, it felt...
  2. despita2

    Lottery ticket analogy

    Hi all, Have you thought why is it pleasurable to worship your wife when locked up? This weekend I had a revelation, and its pretty simple. When you are locked up, the only source of a potential release and sexual gratification comes from your partner. Instinctively, one might think that doing...
  3. Pneuma

    BDSM, Psychology & Therapy

    This short life story of mine was inspired by a curious question leading to a series of questions regarding therapy as a fetish. I don't blog as often as I'd like anymore. This one was struck very sudden and powerful and it lined up perfectly with re-re-re...joining CM. I hope it finds you well...
  4. M

    Opinion: Slavery

    Yes, the S word. People don't like this word these days. Even in computing you have advocates for doing away with Master-Slave jargon in favor of Primary-Secondary and the like. But the reality is, this femdom male chastity FLR life style DOES create a Master/Mistress-Slave dynamic. The...
  5. iome343

    aesthetic

    I am curious to know (mainly from the KHs) if the use of the cage also has an aesthetic value, in your choice. Let me explain. I believe that a flaccid penis is uninspiring to the eye, however, it is a condition that covers most of a man's day. On the other hand, the availability of cages of...
  6. Breathe

    The Power of Perception

    Tons of excellent content can be found on this channel, but I thought this video in particular was rather intriguing. I find this to be a fascinating social concept that seems to have supporting evidence everywhere you turn. We humans truly are complex, seemingly impossible creatures. I won't...