relationship dynamics

I had a lovely conversation with my wife last night about passion and I have been thinking about how to bring more of it into our sex life. We both have an intuitive feel for what passion feels like, though not a great formal definition. But part of it, I think, is feeling like you, personally...

How Pornography Distorts Intimate Relationships - Bret Weinstein Released yesterday (1/9/24) and already has 108K views.

Hello all! I am newly a keyholder and still trying to figure out my level of comfort with my dominance and the whole dynamic really. I have researched my heart out and continue to do so. What I haven’t heard much about is having a FLR and not living together. My boyfriend and I have not been...

I am not really one for assigned artificial # day crap but if I am going to at least appreciate one, it would be this, International-Womens-Day (and by extension, Male-Chastity-Day, so that's two!) not least because I am one and because misogyny seems to be on the rise, perhaps because society...

Began playing as a couple with some generic knockoff device around two years ago. It was too awkward and ill-fitting to be worn outside of the bedroom (or even over night) and we stopped using it after a few months rather than continue having to remove it well before we (she) wanted. Both of us...

Dear Keyholders, I am curious and have a follow on question to Abstraction's earlier question: Abstraction, Jun 6, 2020 Dear keyholders, from what I see, most of the time it's the man who takes the first step. I'd like to know if anyone has had experience initiating chastity with their...

So it has been a while since posting on here so here is a brief update on changes that are relevant here. In the past few months I have tried a few different chastity devices as well different experimenting with different ways to get them to fit better and be more comfortable for prolonged...

So my SO jokingly made a comment about getting herself a chastity belt which got me thinking a bit. Has anyone here ever been in a relationship male female relationship where both people were wearing chastity devices. Neither of us have been into this long so I had no idea if people actually...

(Note: Originally posted last week on my blog - High Heels and Butt Plugs) One of the biggest challenges for many women when exploring female control in their relationship is the confidence to take charge. So much of our upbringing (historically at least) set roles for men and women. A woman's...

Hi CM! My Queen and I are fairly new to chastity, but have been loving it! I ran across it a few months back and couldn't get it out of my head. My wife and I have always had a good relationship and above average communication, so I brought it up to her and she thought it sounded fun, so we...

I have been a member of the Mansion for over two years and it has been a (mostly) friendly, welcoming and helpful environment. I would never have been successful with this lifestyle without it and I have enjoyed interacting with other members. I have enjoyed the messages from members who have...

Some view chastity as a punishment, while others see it as a privilege... of course, there are many shades in between. What's it to you?