self control

Hey everyone! I want to start by saying thank you, I found this sight because I was looking for solutions to a pinching ring on my chastity (found out its because its the wrong size, looking to upgrade soon). Read through the thread and and found myself perusing the site so figured I'd make an...

Hiya Im Brendan a 50 odd year old person who discovered the joys of chastity about a year ago, the longest ive managed to stay locked is 15 days not very impressive by some of your standards i know but im on day 10 now in my new cobra cage (copy) and im determined to beat 15 days this time :-)...

Going into day 5 of being in chastity so still very much in the early phases I've managed 2 over night lock ins and building up. I'm away from my key holder this weekend so no chance of being unlocked all weekend! A key reason for me being keen to try was to avoid watching porn but had the urge...

Been a bit MIA… I got very fatigued with life during Locktober-November… I recognize that I’ve been solely relying on my kinks/fetishes as my only avenue of stress relief… It has started to make me feel empty inside whenever I can’t indulge in these kinks/fetishes - I really did to do a better...

I've been self locking on and off for about a year and a half but I can never keep going past a week. I want to go for 3 weeks now! Any tips and encouragement would be great!

I'm so fucking horny today. I don't know the last time I had an orgasm- a couple weeks to a month. At the beginning of February I had a really tough therapy session around the topic of sex and kink, and suddenly everything to do with being horny made me want to cry. I couldn't read smut, I...

Nothing is more exciting to me than the word "no". I luxuriate in the word. I love to say it, and I love to be told it. I love boundaries. I love turning down invitations. I love denial. I can be a stubborn, impulsive little shit sometimes. There are occasions where someone should really put me...

So, when I'm just locking myself, I have little to no self control and end up unlocking later in the day... But when someone tells me to lock? I obey to a fault. I won't take it off until given express permission to take it off, no matter what.

So I'm coming up on 1 full year of chastity (yay) after locktober got kind of out of hand and I want to do something to celebrate or mark the occasion but I don't know what Any suggestions would be awesome

Hi, 33 male, new here, had a chastity fetish for a while and am trying to get into it. :) I find the idea very enticing, but I’m sure many have been there... It starts easy at first, but the hormones keep building up, slowly but surely, and in some time (for me, usually mere days) eventually I...

After being a compulsive masturbator all my life, last year was a year filled with periods of low libido and increasing problems getting and staying hard. I decided to start the new year off with a self-imposed period of orgasm denial to see what effect this would have on my libido and hardness...

Has anyone had this experience? I was talking to him about how the cage made him feel. He told me he used to have to wear a uniform at one of his first jobs. The first time he wore it it felt strange. After a few weeks it was normal and had changed how he thought of himself. It provided him with...