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Hello CM community! My KH and I are going to our first lifestyle club tomorrow, and the theme is fetish night. We are both fairly new to chastity (infrequent lockups past couples years) but my KH plans to keep me locked the whole time. She voiced a few thoughts on what we could end up doing but...

I’ve seen a number of cages that come with a harness/strap/belt which wraps around the waist to add support. I read from another post on here a while ago that said such a thing could be used to make your device a little more “inescapable” if it’s a non stretch material, holds the cage close and...

Hi all, I'm in the market for a new CB, and looking for reccomendations. I currently have a MM Jailbird, which I love, however a couple of things I'd like to improve on 1. Too long. At 2 1/4 inch the cage is about 1/2 an inch too long when I turtle up, so the main reason is to buy something a...

I was looking through NeoSteel belts and noticed you could get a hip model or waist model. I think I like the appearance of a waist model, that being said, has anyone tried both? Which is more comfortable in your opinion? Are there pros and cons for both?

Before I bury the lead, I’ll preface that I bought a full belt from Lovegasm called the “Back Pocket Rocket Male Chastity Belt” for about $120, and as of right now, I’m not overly pleased with it. But I suppose I got what I paid for. I’m not sure where to go from here. For a long while now I’ve...

TDLR: Looking for reasonable and discreet Femdom couple matching tattoo ideas I’m looking for a discreet symbol for a male sub/female dominant for a possible tattoo (or engraving on jewelry). The treskilion is not specific, and I want something discreet enough where vanilla types won’t think...

Hello, fellow CM members. I am visiting quite regular the chat rooms lately, and it has come to my attention that many of the discussions in general chat there should not be happening there. I don 't have personally any problem with these discussions, in fact I have probable take part in some...

Any suggestions or ideas you have heard of to (pumpkin) spice up this locktober holiday?

Hi All, I'm currently secured in a Mature Metal Jailbird, which I've had for a couple of years now. The cage has been really good, although I think I need to reduce the length by about 1/2". However, my only minor issue is I sometimes get some mild pinching where my foreskin protrudes through...

So he was telling me He likes when he feels owned. I guess this is normal right? I have some ideas on how to go about this but it is hard for me to think like him. Because of this are there any suggestions you might have to share to make him feel more owned?

Is there any way to search users by location or by distance from my location? I think it would be nice to see if any CM members are nearby but I have not figure out how to do it, if it is possible.

hi guys, I have been lurking here for a while, trying to learn about chastity as it has always been an interest of mine, but not my husbands. I like the idea of "owning" my husband, and he likes the idea of me taking charge, but it seems wrong that I, as a woman, am the one interested in this...

Someone wrote me asking what keyholder techniques actually work for me. He said his keyholder asked him to get working techniques. Here are some that work for me, perhaps you would share some that work for you. Techniques that work: 1. Learn what is a turn on: One of the best things I did...