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  1. N

    Discovering my Humiliation Kink

    Hello fellow Kinksters! My goddess and I have been having fun in Chastity for about 2 years now, but recently I've discovered I really like humiliation after reading a guide to humiliation in Chastity. My Goddess and I are going to have a long talk about what they are comfortable with and what...
  2. C

    Questions and learnings after two years of experimentation

    Hi there! My first post but i've browsed the site a many times. I’ve been playing on and off for a couple of years more heavily in the last year, mostly solo. My wife recently decided she really enjoys chastity play and we now play exclusively together; giving her the keys always brings a big...
  3. Bexxy.W

    Rules for time of the month

    I'm looking for ideas for when it's my time of the month. Normally when aunt flo decides to arrive I have absolutely no sex drive whatsoever! I don't even want my husband touching me at all...and this normally lasts the week before and the week during, this can get boring a few days in and I...
  4. Bexxy.W

    Hey!

    Hi guys, so glad I found this site! So I'm fairly new to this, my husband and I have tried the chastity cage/denial route for a couple of year on and off. I'm open to any and all tips you guys may have
  5. D

    Update 2.2: its been a while

    Update 2.2: It's been a while... I'm sorry about that. I am struggling with depression at the moment and my other illnesses and curently out of my iron cage and on the honor system. It works very well. I dont want to orgasm and being a buzzy bee around my wife has certainly its benefits. She...
  6. D

    Bulge

    Hi all, Already 3 weeks with nonorgasm and still 3 weeks to go at least. I have a chinese steel device with the 45mm ring and 45mm cage. I also have a smaller nub version but here's my question: When I try to get erect, there is a bulge forming behind my ring, like an inward erection, is this...
  7. G

    New key holder, need tips and Dos/Don'ts

    Hello! So I have experimented in the past with some Dom/Sub activities, but this is the first time that I have been a KH to someone's chastity. I would really appreciate if anyone would be able to give me some ideas/ dos or don'ts about being a KH. Any help is appreciated!
  8. A

    the essential rules of self locking

    First of all I would like to point out that I am not a pro or a doctor or any other kind of specialist. I am just a curios person who is into self locking with a chastity device. When I first started experimenting with chastity I ran into a lot of problems while wearing the device and I am sure...
  9. titaniumjones

    Making Your Own Device

    I purchased a Steel Worxx Looker 2 a few years ago. When I got a piercing I sent it back for modifications. I was never happy with the finished result. I'd made an error with the measurements and it didn't fit quite right after that. I then bought a lock to replace the integrated security screw...
  10. Neil968

    Wearing CB-6000S with foreskin

    Hello, can anybody give me any tips on wearing a CB-6000S with foreskin as I am uncut. Anything would be appreciated, thanks.
  11. chastityreality

    Hello everyone. Unusual chastity relatoinship

    Well hello ladies & gentlemen. I am new on here and like to introduce myself. My name is Steel-Master, I am in a beatifull relationship with a great girl which happens to be my subbmissive, her name is 923-718-928. A few weeks ago we found out by accident that my dominant side is way more...
  12. Williamsclaude

    Should I err on the side of...

    Hey guys! On Monday I will hand the keys belonging to my holy trainer over to my new Mistress. My question to you is which A ring I should commit to. At the moment I am able to wear the two largest provided. Despite the largest one pinching a little when I first wake in the morning, I am...
  13. Williamsclaude

    Advice for a new beginner

    hello, I'm new here. On Monday I will hand the keys to my holy trainer over to a pro domme. The longest time I have spent locked before is probably only a few days. This time though will most likely be at least a month, as to get the keys back I will probably have to book a session which I can...
  14. J

    From the very beginning.....

    Well here we are, I suppose I'd better start with a bit of background infomation ! Me and my boyfriend have been together for quite a while moved in and a happy household! I have quite a busy job and he runs a small building company, we get on fantasticly and love each other deeply he has had...
  15. V

    The light at the end of the tunnel.

    When I lived in NYC it was said that we did not like the light at the end of the tunnel because it is New Jersey. :) Despite that we moved to NJ and lived there in four different cities for the bulk of our life. Sort of like how we started chastity. I saw the light as something that was...
  16. Sammie5

    Wife Learning Domination

    We are new to this. I told my wife that she spent 35 years following me around and helping me, now it's her turn. I'm caged. She's my Key Holder, and now I pleasure in her denial and I look to submit to her every need. This is where I need help. I'm suppose to give her a list of things she can...
  17. HT89

    Hello everybody.

    Hello everybody. This weekend or early this week. I am getting locked into my HT V2. My partner bought is after admitting he has really want 100% control only my manhood and what I do with it. This is daunting yet intriguing for me as I want to know more about what's life like with one on...
  18. W

    My New Key Holder

    Hello all! Long story short, I have desired to be locked into chastity for years by my girlfriend. We finally tried it and it failed. She got very overwhelmed because it was just too much for her too fast. We stopped for half a year. It recently started again in an odd way. I turned her down...